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Old 18th June 2017, 6:19 AM   #1
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What else could you do to get a girl without a commitment?

Hi

How would you find a girl without a commitment because there are people that don't want a commitment and just want that other person without having a commitment to be able to still do own things too.

The sister lives overseas and the cousins live atleast 3 hours away, and a mate lives atleast 4 hours away,

Everytime you finally meet one worth knowing you find out somehow she has a boyfriend and even though you don't want a commitment it's better to look for a single one that also doesn't want a commitment, a lot seem to want a commitment or ones you can think of.

What could you do without having to travel 150+ km to and back from the nearest city weekly fortnightly. A lot seem to plan to move there or live there and not everyone is in a position to travel once a week

Some also have a car that needs things fixed and can only afford them bit by bit and have to put up with not being able to go weekly until all fixed though occasional trip may not be a problem.

As the friend if you had a girl you could stay somewhere or do whatever

If the sister was here it wouldn't matter how long it took
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Old 18th June 2017, 7:11 AM   #2
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You sound young. Problem for you is that a lot of young women want a committed boyfriend. Well, so do a lot of older women too, but even more so for wpyounger ones.

I'm having a bit of trouble understanding your post. Perhaps it's easier if I ask why you want a girl who doesn't want a commitment. And what relevance does your family and friends living far away have to the question?

How old are you?
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Old 18th June 2017, 7:25 AM   #3
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what it means is would oneday like a girl with no commitment just to do something with now and then weekly fortnightly and some people are happy single and dont want a commitment.

and the distance means if the sister, cousins or mate was closer it wouldnt matter how long it took to find the other one as youd still have them in the mean time.

alot of the girls seem to move to the city which is 150+km and dont want to have to go there to find it as youll have to do a ton of trips and not everyones in a position to do that even though they sometimes go

reason for maybe wanting one with no commitment its because some of us are happy single and being yourself and do your stuff and itll still allow you to do that and see the person whenever weekly or fortnightly

what could be done

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Old 18th June 2017, 2:32 PM   #4
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You need to just be making friends, instead of looking for a girl who doesn't want a commitment.
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Old 18th June 2017, 4:32 PM   #5
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Problem is the culture. maybe?

I'm going to do some extrapolating,based on the way you wrote your post and the use of English (as in England English,not American.) I'm guessing you are a South Asian or in a similar background and have had little dating experience. Maybe you live in a small town where there isn't a large dating pool. It sounds to me like you want a girlfriend but the girls around you are not allowed to "date" unless there's a marriage down the road. If this is the case, you had better move. The neighborhood isn't going to become more liberal overnight, and you have no obligation to stay in it..samje?
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Old 18th June 2017, 6:25 PM   #6
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I agree with preraph. What you need is more friends.
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Old 21st June 2017, 7:51 PM   #7
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Anything else you can do to get a special friend if you don't want to travel
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Old 22nd June 2017, 12:37 AM   #8
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Anything else you can do to get a special friend if you don't want to travel
What have you tried so far?
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Old 7th July 2017, 6:21 PM   #9
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Is there other ways of getting a non committed girl without leaving the town your in as not everyone wants to do a ton of trips or wants a commitment
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Old 7th July 2017, 6:36 PM   #10
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Is there other ways of getting a non committed girl without leaving the town your in as not everyone wants to do a ton of trips or wants a commitment
What have you tried so far?
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Old 7th July 2017, 7:17 PM   #11
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Tried talking to odd one, but doing tons trips 150+km isn't a option and don't yet have a van to be able to say come over when you free

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