beachlover965 Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 Not strangers but people you know really well. Do you think it's wrong to ask? Is it too personal? Link to post Share on other sites
AVarma Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 It's certainly strange. It's not something I imagine people share with other people except for maybe their boyfriend/girlfriend, and often not even with them! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
E-Squared Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 It's a rather awkward question to ask. I have been asked that question and I got defensive when asked. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 I would never think about anyone (over 18) being a virgin or not? Much less care enough to ask them. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 My close friends & I discussed it when we were all in our late teens. Mostly the discussions were about mechanics, respect, insecurity etc. The person who started the discussion was most often the virgin seeking advice. I think for most people I would be very put off if somebody who I wasn't planning to have sex with in the immediate future asked. Then again as a middle aged married women, I would also Q the intelligence of anybody who asked me at this life stage 2 Link to post Share on other sites
AVarma Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 Then again as a middle aged married women, I would also Q the intelligence of anybody who asked me at this life stage I don't even want to know what you and you're husband do in private. It's too much for my innocent virgin mind. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
AVarma Posted February 20, 2015 Share Posted February 20, 2015 If you don't mind me asking why are you asking this? Are you a virgin OP? Link to post Share on other sites
SpiralOut Posted February 21, 2015 Share Posted February 21, 2015 It's a weird question to ask unless you're a teenager. Once you've hit a certain age you assume that everybody has had sex. To think that someone maybe didn't, and to ask them, is insulting. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
newmoon Posted February 21, 2015 Share Posted February 21, 2015 i would never ask anyone, unless you were in an intimate relationship with them. Link to post Share on other sites
AVarma Posted February 21, 2015 Share Posted February 21, 2015 i would never ask anyone, unless you were in an intimate relationship with them. Exactly. Except for teenagers being mean I can't imagine any adult asking this question. They would come off as complete douchebags. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Badass Posted February 22, 2015 Share Posted February 22, 2015 Hmm,you can give the best answer on your question. Think someone comes and asks if you're a virgin. How would you feel? Link to post Share on other sites
crazycanuck86 Posted February 22, 2015 Share Posted February 22, 2015 Unless you are planning to become intamite with them that is their business. Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted February 22, 2015 Share Posted February 22, 2015 None of your business. Do you ask how many times a day they have a bowel movement!?!?! Some things should remain private. Link to post Share on other sites
CrystalShine2011 Posted February 22, 2015 Share Posted February 22, 2015 I wouldn't ask... Link to post Share on other sites
AVarma Posted February 22, 2015 Share Posted February 22, 2015 None of your business. Do you ask how many times a day they have a bowel movement!?!?! Some things should remain private. You'd be surprised at some of the things people share with their friends. In my experience if somebody hasn't had a girlfriend in a while (say years) and is a bit socially awkward people may start to question it in private. But only a jerk would ask someone to their face. Link to post Share on other sites
E-Squared Posted February 23, 2015 Share Posted February 23, 2015 I remember how about four years ago when I talked to this one girl, she came out with "May I ask you a personal question" and then asked me if I was a virgin. I don't know exactly what made her ask me nor do I know how I implied it to her that I was one. It was embarrassing. Link to post Share on other sites
La Trese Posted February 23, 2015 Share Posted February 23, 2015 I don't really like it when people ask me. Its just uncomfortable. The only time i'm ok with it is if it is relevant to the conversation we are having and we are all talking about it. Link to post Share on other sites
AVarma Posted February 25, 2015 Share Posted February 25, 2015 If you don't mind me asking OP why are you so interested if whether or not your friends are virgins? I can understand asking a date or potential girlfriend but why friends? Link to post Share on other sites
fitnessfan365 Posted February 26, 2015 Share Posted February 26, 2015 If you don't mind me asking OP why are you so interested if whether or not your friends are virgins? I can understand asking a date or potential girlfriend but why friends? I think you missed the OP's point. He said that a girl asked him if he was a virgin and it made him feel uncomfortable. So i think he's asking if people feel that was wrong to do and in general. Link to post Share on other sites
SpiralOut Posted February 26, 2015 Share Posted February 26, 2015 The OP hasn't responded to this thread. He/she also never gave the reason for asking the question. Link to post Share on other sites
anika99 Posted February 27, 2015 Share Posted February 27, 2015 (edited) I think you missed the OP's point. He said that a girl asked him if he was a virgin and it made him feel uncomfortable. So i think he's asking if people feel that was wrong to do and in general. That was never stated in this thread and the OP is a female. Edited February 27, 2015 by anika99 added Link to post Share on other sites
purplesoccer34 Posted March 5, 2015 Share Posted March 5, 2015 I have only discussed this with my closest female friend, and that was back in high school and college. I would find it odd if anyone else asked me this question. Link to post Share on other sites
applej4 Posted March 5, 2015 Share Posted March 5, 2015 The OP hasn't responded to this thread. He/she also never gave the reason for asking the question. Yeah I noticed. Link to post Share on other sites
SpiralOut Posted March 6, 2015 Share Posted March 6, 2015 Yeah I noticed. I was responding to FitnessFan who claimed that the OP responded. Link to post Share on other sites
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