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Old 6th June 2011, 7:22 PM   #1
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I have never dreampt about the same guy so much.

Every night. He's in my dreams, without fail.

I don't know how to get him off my mind.
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Old 6th June 2011, 10:51 PM   #2
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Just random dreams...but they all have him in them. Last night I dreampt I was wearing a shirt that looks like his. I practically have his whole wardrobe memorized.
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Old 6th June 2011, 11:54 PM   #3
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Just random dreams...but they all have him in them. Last night I dreampt I was wearing a shirt that looks like his. I practically have his whole wardrobe memorized.
Is this a close friend or co-worker?
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Old 7th June 2011, 12:42 AM   #4
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Old 7th June 2011, 9:31 AM   #5
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"To see friends in your dream, signify aspects of your personality that you have rejected, but are ready to incorporate and acknowledge. The relationships you have with those around you are important in learning about yourself. Alternatively, dreaming of a friend, indicates positive news." -dreammoods.com

Maybe this friend you keep dreaming about has had such a great impact on your life that you (dreaming of wearing his clothes) want to be like him, or perhaps it's that you feel safe w/ him (ex. his clothes protecting you).
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Old 7th June 2011, 8:12 PM   #6
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Or that I'm hopelessly in love with him.
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Old 7th June 2011, 8:41 PM   #7
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Or that I'm hopelessly in love with him.
Do you have a crush on him?
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Old 8th June 2011, 12:55 AM   #8
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I'd like to say it's a little bit bigger than a crush.
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Old 8th June 2011, 12:58 AM   #9
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I'd like to say it's a little bit bigger than a crush.
Are you going to tell him?
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Old 8th June 2011, 1:05 AM   #10
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I already have.
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Old 8th June 2011, 1:12 AM   #11
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I already have.
haha AND? you are so short with your words. Spill it? :P
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Old 8th June 2011, 1:45 AM   #12
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He doesn't feel the same and I can't get over him.

He wants to be friends.
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Old 8th June 2011, 9:00 AM   #13
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I'm sorry he doesn't feel the same. You can't make someone love you. But who knows, maybe time will tell.
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Old 8th June 2011, 1:03 PM   #14
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Maybe it's more obsessive thinking. Like, because he's rejected you you can't get him off your mind rather than he's just so special. Try changing your thinking about him. Don't put him on a pedestal.
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Old 8th June 2011, 6:57 PM   #15
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Maybe it's more obsessive thinking. Like, because he's rejected you you can't get him off your mind rather than he's just so special. Try changing your thinking about him. Don't put him on a pedestal.
No, this is not "I want him because he doesn't want me". I'm crushed he doesn't want me. It's not a good feeling.
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