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Old 21st May 2011, 3:44 PM   #1
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Arrow gross???

do you guys think that lap dances are gross? especially when my ex boyfriend does it to my best friend???
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Old 23rd May 2011, 1:03 AM   #2
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yes, but its somewhat weak? nevertheless, is that gross or an ok thing for him to do???
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Old 23rd May 2011, 1:04 AM   #3
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and HELP!!! what does it mean?
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Old 23rd May 2011, 1:07 AM   #4
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Lap dances are super fun. But him doing it to your best friend is not cool. Thats messed up especially if you were there.
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Old 23rd May 2011, 1:10 AM   #5
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Wink

i wasnt, but he sure made it clear to me when he posted it on facebook for the world to see. i just find it extremely awkward, especially since she's my friend? could he be falling for my friend? (or am i reading too much into this?)
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Old 23rd May 2011, 1:35 AM   #6
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I think all of the questions your asking is normal but what does your friend have to say about this? Idk if your still talking to him but he is a total jerk so dont waste your time on him.
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Old 23rd May 2011, 1:41 AM   #7
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she says it was one of those dares where you randomly pick a partner type of thing?

@blaid, yeah. if it was any other guy that'll be fine, but i dont know what to think of my ex and my friend now =(
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Old 23rd May 2011, 1:48 AM   #8
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Doesnt seem like you trust either of them to much. Let her know that he is no-no. You have every right since he is your ex. That is girl code anyway. If they start a relationship together, ditch them.
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Old 24th May 2011, 12:29 AM   #9
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aww... thank you blaid and pretty lady lol, those comments helped a lot =)
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Old 24th May 2011, 12:39 AM   #10
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Your so called "friend" doesn't seem like a friend at all if she allowed it to happen. The circumstances don't matter.

It's completely inappropriate for her to have engaged in it if she's your friend.
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Old 24th May 2011, 3:25 AM   #11
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thanks D-Lish =) but yeah, she did allow it to happen afterall. i also did notice that she always asks about me and my ex when im ever with her, like she always says "do you and him still like hate each other?". i dont know what she was trying to do.
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Old 24th May 2011, 8:05 AM   #12
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Sounds like two people who are holding off the best they can to be considerate to you. If you are a friend to either then you should give them your blessing.
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Old 24th May 2011, 8:18 AM   #13
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do you guys think that lap dances are gross? especially when my ex boyfriend does it to my best friend???
NO! lap dances are harmless at a nude bar ( and pocket draining )

as for your situation YES, low class and disrespectfull.
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Old 24th May 2011, 8:46 AM   #14
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as for your situation YES, low class and disrespectfull.
Disrespectful to whom? This was between two consenting individuals.
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Old 26th May 2011, 2:09 AM   #15
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@skirtwoosh: actually she says she's into his bestfriend? so i dunno? lol

@plasma: you think so? i completely lost respect for him, like, especially to my friend, like of afll people!!!
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