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Old 17th January 2010, 7:06 AM   #61
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it's not so much what you should be afraid of, it's more a case of all the things you are afraid of but cannot consciously face, needing to find something to focus on
That sounds far fetched to me. Give me an example.
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Old 11th February 2010, 9:46 AM   #62
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Guy #1 is in my dancing class now. I've seen him a couple of times at Salsa parties and then I just give him a friendly "Hi" and he says hi back although I think he looks as if he's trying to hide that he's pissed off.

I'm also running into guy #2 all the time.

I think being clear is good, but not when the social circle is so small. If there's a likelihood that you will run into the person again and again, it's probably best to ignore people and to draw the line each time they want more. It's really awkward with these two at the moment. At least, there's no overlapping of people we know and I hope it stays that way.
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Old 11th February 2010, 2:09 PM   #63
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Guy #1 is in my dancing class now. I've seen him a couple of times at Salsa parties and then I just give him a friendly "Hi" and he says hi back although I think he looks as if he's trying to hide that he's pissed off.

I'm also running into guy #2 all the time.

I think being clear is good, but not when the social circle is so small. If there's a likelihood that you will run into the person again and again, it's probably best to ignore people and to draw the line each time they want more. It's really awkward with these two at the moment. At least, there's no overlapping of people we know and I hope it stays that way.
well they've quit bugging you so that's a big improvement!

I'm taking a night class on my usual salsa night, so I haven't been in a month.
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Old 11th February 2010, 3:20 PM   #64
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well they've quit bugging you so that's a big improvement!
It's quite awkward.

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I'm taking a night class on my usual salsa night, so I haven't been in a month.
Here, you can go like every night!
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Old 12th February 2010, 1:40 PM   #65
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It's quite awkward.


Here, you can go like every night!
lol, same here, but between full-time work, a 40 mile (each way) commute to night-classes 2 days a week, networking group once a week in the morning, and trying to have a gf and a life...

Salsa is unfortunately on the back burner at the moment...
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