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Old 25th August 2016, 1:40 PM   #31
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Old 26th August 2016, 1:09 AM   #32
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If there's a security service there they should def escort you. I mean that's what they're there for.
I'm actually a bit uncomfortable using the security services. Two of my (male) coworkers who have been very protective of me through this and I were talking. In some cases he was waiting for me but in others he seemed to rush somewhere when I was there. We were wondering if he was using the security cameras in order to do this which would probably mean he's friendly with the security staff. The oddest one is he always knew when I was in the gym and when I was alone. He would typically come through the door within minutes of me being alone. There were no windows from that direction so he didn't see me passing by or something like that. I had some similar experiences elsewhere on the campus where he appeared out of no where even though it was an unusual time for me to be somewhere. My coworkers have asked to be my escorts since we find that fishy.

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No, US.
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Old 26th August 2016, 1:15 AM   #33
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Today I saw someone at the other end of the parking structure but they ran away when I got off the elevator so I couldn't get a good look. I don't know if it was him or someone else in that department. I know it was someone who works for that vendor though. I had never seen him in the area when I leave work so I really don't know if it was him or not but found it creepy it just happened to be when I got there. I made sure no one was following me just in case.
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Old 26th August 2016, 11:20 AM   #34
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The good news is I've been looking and I haven't even seen a glimpse of him after that last incident. But I don't put it past him to be pissed that it went to his employer.
He can be pissed all he wants, not your problem. (But yeah it's good for you to be vigilant.) And coworker escorts are fine, as long as you have escorts.

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