pink_sugar Posted January 13, 2015 Share Posted January 13, 2015 So I work in an office of 10-15 people and everyone is pretty close knit and even somewhat cliquey. Most have been there a while. There is this one guy is fairly reserved. He would talk to me on occasion, but lately I try to initiate small talk occasionally and he either gives one word answers or ignores what I say. Maybe it's me, but he still seems to talk to everyone else normally. Not sure what his deal is. Thoughts? Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted January 13, 2015 Share Posted January 13, 2015 I think he's uncomfortable with so much small talk and you should stop talking small talk to him. Just nod and smile and say hi instead. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author pink_sugar Posted January 13, 2015 Author Share Posted January 13, 2015 I will definitely do that. It just seems weird since he seems to carry on conversation with almost everyone else. I guess I'm just wondering if it's something I said. Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted January 13, 2015 Share Posted January 13, 2015 I think it unlikely that you something wrong. Try not to worry about it too much. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author pink_sugar Posted January 13, 2015 Author Share Posted January 13, 2015 I think it unlikely that you something wrong. Try not to worry about it too much. Thanks. I just hate feeling left out sometimes like I don't fit in. Link to post Share on other sites
karmasama Posted January 14, 2015 Share Posted January 14, 2015 People have and can have many reasons beyond your guess. Just try to be your normal self. Link to post Share on other sites
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