makeithappen Posted December 20, 2014 Share Posted December 20, 2014 Hello, After a series of social gatherings at work, I discovered that none of my female colleagues (who call themselves my friends!) actually care much for me! I feel negative vibes when I am around them (I cannot explain it, but I sense that I do not occupy a big place in their heart, despite the smiles!) I have so much anger and resentment that I do not want to socialise with them, or even give them a smile and engage in small talk with them. The hate is too much, let's say. However, I do not want to be in trouble at work. How can I avoid being seen as the one who wants to start a conflict at work? I simply do not like these people and even seeing them is too much! Link to post Share on other sites
jellybean89 Posted December 25, 2014 Share Posted December 25, 2014 Think of work as just that - work; not a social gathering. If they ask you to join in after work activities, politely decline stating you have other plans. Remain professional and civil at work; but you are under no obligation to hang out after work with them. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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