Habibiti Posted November 13, 2017 Share Posted November 13, 2017 Is always trying to hurt me... Indirectly bringing up names of people or things that bring me distress... I'm trying to think more positively, but when im hurting anyways they still do it... Even when im happy and trying to go about my everyday life... They do it over and over... In a way to bring me back to pain.. Maybe God is trying to tell me to feel emotion and that's why it happens? But why are people so mean? Why would someone hurt someone on purpose? Please don't hurt me... I'm trying to change.. To be better... Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted November 13, 2017 Share Posted November 13, 2017 IME, it's not so much that people are purposely mean rather other's existence doesn't matter in a way which moves them off-center. What might come across as mean to you or me could very likely be zero to them. Neutral. Don't care one way or another. Imagine if you asked a computer a question and got an answer you didn't like. Do you think the computer is being 'mean' to you? Why? However, back to the humans, if there's a pervasive and consistent pattern, then that's a different kettle of fish. Those are the ones you toss back into the sea. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Habibiti Posted November 13, 2017 Author Share Posted November 13, 2017 Lol... okay thank you... Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted November 13, 2017 Share Posted November 13, 2017 It would be a lot easier to offer you help and support if we knew who this person was and what they are doing to you. Can you tell us the story? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Habibiti Posted November 13, 2017 Author Share Posted November 13, 2017 I dont whose doing it but someone is putting sinful things on my phone.. things will pop up... that's not me anymore... And whenever I'm just online doing something I always run into pictures, names or words that trigger hurt and painful memories... People are doing this I believe... I just wish theyd stop.. Link to post Share on other sites
irresolute Posted November 28, 2017 Share Posted November 28, 2017 You might need a mental health counselor. Being responsable for our own actions and thoughts is esentual. Try to think why you're blaming others. Link to post Share on other sites
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