august14 Posted September 4, 2016 Share Posted September 4, 2016 He was being a jerk and I was so angry I called him out on it, and now I feel like I should apologize to him. I think it would've been better if he wasn't a friend. Anyone been in this position? Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted September 4, 2016 Share Posted September 4, 2016 Why do you feel bad about calling him out on his crap? How is he suppose to grow if nobody challenges him to be a better person? It sounds to me like you're a true friend. Were you mean about it or something? Link to post Share on other sites
Author august14 Posted September 4, 2016 Author Share Posted September 4, 2016 Were you mean about it or something? Yes, I don't get mad often but when i do I'm very mean. Link to post Share on other sites
Rosemary101 Posted September 5, 2016 Share Posted September 5, 2016 Sounds like you are regretting being too harsh. But you should be proud about looking out for a friend. Next time, call out in a non-judgmental way. Link to post Share on other sites
T-16bullseyeWompRat Posted September 6, 2016 Share Posted September 6, 2016 Pro tip: Men get over stuff like this a lot easier then women. We typically don't have a "Rolodex" and file away some mean thing someone said to us once, the way women tend to do. That's how we can be complete *******s to one another and still be best buds. My guess is he will forget all about it before you do. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted September 7, 2016 Share Posted September 7, 2016 Did you patch it up yet or are you still not talking too much? Link to post Share on other sites
Author august14 Posted September 8, 2016 Author Share Posted September 8, 2016 Did you patch it up yet or are you still not talking too much? We've started talking, but it's all very polite. I don't know if I should bring it up to clarify I was wrong to be so mean, or to wait it out and never mention it again. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
JustGettingBy Posted September 8, 2016 Share Posted September 8, 2016 We've started talking, but it's all very polite. I don't know if I should bring it up to clarify I was wrong to be so mean, or to wait it out and never mention it again. Men are usually more direct than women. If he doesn't seem upset, he likely isn't, so don't be hard on yourself. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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