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Old 3rd November 2017, 3:30 PM   #16
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so its my last day out here


she didnt get back to me for lunch on tuesday

last night i asked her to get drinks she said she cant cuz shes working

and she asked what time i was leaving ; she never replied


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Old 3rd November 2017, 5:07 PM   #17
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You are fortunate that fate intervened on your behalf.
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Old 3rd November 2017, 10:12 PM   #18
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What am i supposed to do - hit her in public ? id get arrested if i hit a woman . I will NOT do that .

You are absolutely correct though about the violent sex as she definitely seems to be into that sort of thing . Thing is - that is not me.

Not gonna lie ; i like her alot and im attracted to her fiestyness - and downright to the point im conflicted .

I want to ask her out one last time . I leave on friday ...
She wants you to show her that you are not gonna take her crap. You were probably a bit too passive when dealing with her and she was turned off. She was testing you to see if you could give her what she wants, and just like you said, that is not you. She seems to have noticed that and has lost interest because of it.

If something like this comes up again, don't hit her in public or anything, but at least show her that you won't just sit back and let her kick the crap out of you.

I have dated a couple women like this. Both had a rape fetish and insisted that I force myself on them during sex. The one girl studied martial arts and was a bit of a scrapper. She fought back like a tigress. She told me in advance that was what she wanted and said none of her exes were up to it. We spent pretty much all night wrestling, fighting, and having sex like we hated one another. Fun times.
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Old 4th November 2017, 1:29 AM   #19
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She wants you to show her that you are not gonna take her crap. You were probably a bit too passive when dealing with her and she was turned off. She was testing you to see if you could give her what she wants, and just like you said, that is not you. She seems to have noticed that and has lost interest because of it.

If something like this comes up again, don't hit her in public or anything, but at least show her that you won't just sit back and let her kick the crap out of you.

I have dated a couple women like this. Both had a rape fetish and insisted that I force myself on them during sex. The one girl studied martial arts and was a bit of a scrapper. She fought back like a tigress. She told me in advance that was what she wanted and said none of her exes were up to it. We spent pretty much all night wrestling, fighting, and having sex like we hated one another. Fun times.

right ... how am i supposed to b even doing any of that agressiveness even it i wanted to show it -

first off were at a pool hall . people allover the place .. 2nd she had her gay guy friend with who i met for the first time .

if someone saw me lay a hand on her ; id get arrsted , jumped or even beat up for hitting a woman .


u see , privately sure ill get aggressive and fight and yes i do kkow she likes that sort of feistyness in guys .

again , my conscious , responsible awareness knows better than to pull anything stupid like fight back in public .

if its just two of us . sure game on

but nah , people allover . public place ...

you know what i mean ? i get what your saying about ahe gets off on that sort of thing but man if we were at her place , a park ... again game on.

let me ask u this ; was the gurls you dealing with piss drunk / on drugs cuz this woman was ...

the next day she texts me saying im sorry im a bitch ; i dont know why i wanna fight you

anyway im hopping on a plane back home .

she didnt even contact me after she said she would .
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Old 5th November 2017, 7:27 AM   #20
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So i met this woman over 2 years ago in the Nevada ... we got pretty close ( no we didnt sleep with each other or even kissed ) but in time I grew to like her alot. Trouble was she was on the rocks with her bf and was going on and off with their relationship .

A year ago, I flew down and she invited me to stay with her at her place ( i slept on the couch ) ,we were at a party and she got pretty wasted ; wanted to fight EVERYONE ... and particularly me.

During that time . these guys held her back and she kept shouting ( I LOVE **** my name **** ) ... and was going berzerk that we had to remove her from the party. I stayed . then she calls me from her place and said to me on the phone she wanted to have sex.

I drove to her place only to find her passed out . I didnt take advantage of it and i left her place .. The next day she sobered up ; i told her what happened and she was pretty embarased and disgusted . After that; I left and we grew distant ...

Fast Forward a year later ... today. IM back in Nevada and i saw her last night

... we caught up last night and played some pool at a local bar in town and -- not surprised -- she wanted to fight me again throwing punches , biting me and even kicking my face !

During our little rumble ( more like really agreessive playfighting with us rolling around the ground ) As a man , I refused to hit a woman and all i could do was hold her down while she dug her nails everywhere at me and even took bite marks allover my body.

at some point she said to me " you like it when we do this dont you . You know someone said for me to marry you ( me ) ... Youre too nice **my name ** ; YOU NEED TO GET ANGRY , let it out "

We left the place went back to her place and she fell asleep. I left without saying bye and this morning she texts me :

" Sorry about last night , im a ****ing bitch . I dont know why i always want to fight you fml. Sorry about the bite marks , god im such a bitch "

I asked her out this afternoon for lunch and she agreed ... im going to go see her in a couple of hours and when i come back I thought id get peoples opinions . AM I CRAZY ? what is the reason why she always wants to fight me . She did it a year ago and last night she did it again ". Is this her way of showing some kind of flirtatious behaviour . I keep wondering why she wants me to get physical with her and tells me " youre too nice ; I want you to get angry "


What are your thoughts in this situation folks ?
we were at a party and she got pretty wasted ; wanted to fight EVERYONE ... and particularly me. -- She is a nasty drunk and it's not just about you. This is likely a regular occurrence. It's pretty unlikely that a year ago she had a rare outburst and then again a year later.

Sorry about the bite marks -- She assaulted you. You don't have to hit her, you need to call the police and file a complaint with pictures.

What are my thoughts? -- I'm not wondering about why she does what she does, I'm wondering why you would even see her again after the first problem with her.

Is this her way of showing some kind of flirtatious behaviour -- Even if it is, does this work for you? I mean, if you figure out that that's really her way of flirting, you're OK with that and so will continue to see her? If this is her way of flirting and you do become "intimate" with her, I hope you're into BDSM.

This is your thread, it should be about you. Forget about what's up with HER, focus on what's up with YOU for even going down this road. Find yourself a woman who is stable and flirts in a fun way.
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Old 12th November 2017, 4:24 AM   #21
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right ... how am i supposed to b even doing any of that agressiveness even it i wanted to show it -

first off were at a pool hall . people allover the place .. 2nd she had her gay guy friend with who i met for the first time .

if someone saw me lay a hand on her ; id get arrsted , jumped or even beat up for hitting a woman .


u see , privately sure ill get aggressive and fight and yes i do kkow she likes that sort of feistyness in guys .

again , my conscious , responsible awareness knows better than to pull anything stupid like fight back in public .

if its just two of us . sure game on

but nah , people allover . public place ...

you know what i mean ? i get what your saying about ahe gets off on that sort of thing but man if we were at her place , a park ... again game on.

let me ask u this ; was the gurls you dealing with piss drunk / on drugs cuz this woman was ...

the next day she texts me saying im sorry im a bitch ; i dont know why i wanna fight you

anyway im hopping on a plane back home .

she didnt even contact me after she said she would .
She's like the bad boys who like to smack her in the face. You're like me we just don't hit women. I am more behind the two types of men. Just can't be too nice and you just can't be too brutal. Weak minded men are not acceptable today's world. She already told you she wants roughness brute force and your not doing that. Drunk is her way of living, the drinking is her life. Just can't do anything about it. I don't drink like that right now no drinks, I got one friend who drank so much both kidneys are gone he's life is like living hell in so much pain. People who drink should pay a visit at the
kidney dialysis center and see all those people on the beds getting flushed for several hours for 5 years until a suited kidneys are available? So drink-up and look what your going to get involved with soon. She needs to quit drinking just damaging herself internally.
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Old 12th November 2017, 9:16 AM   #22
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What are your thoughts in this situation folks ?
Ahh... okay, here goes.. I think this girl you like is an alcoholic who can't handler her alcohol and has anger management issues.

Alcohol is a bad one. Sometimes people need to realize what is a bad vice for them that does not go well with their personality type and they need to learn to avoid it and maybe pickup a new vice (if it seems that they need a vice in order to function in life).


My advice is try to convince this girl to stop drinking and maybe pickup smoking dope. I might make her more mellow. The anger, fighting and alcohol thing is sooner or later going to result in something bad happening. Either she will get punched in the face badly some someone in a public place or get arrested.
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