I've been on this website a few years ago & liked the feedback, so I thought I would give it a try.
* I am asking for outside opinions, because sometimes it helps
Me and my sister have an 8 year age gap & are also very different from each other.
Well it all started when I was 16 years old. That was the first time he hit on me. My sister was pregnant and almost due, she was at the store shopping. Nothing physical but he had told me that he wanted to kiss me at this party they had just recently, but he didn't try to because he didn't know how I was going to react. I left there house immediately and went home. I was so confused and shocked. From then on I always felt uncomfortable around him. Was too scared to tell my sister because she was so happy about her new baby.
Throughout my 20's I didn't see the both of them much because they had moved out of state. But when I did he always made me feel uncomfortable. Always wanting to get me alone- whatever was going on & he liked to rub himself down there noticebly. I guess he was waiting for me to initiate or something.
Not until recently I started having marital problems and I started talking to my sister for support, that Steve got involved & he started texting me and sending me emails. I didn't care because so much time had passed.
He sent me a provacative video of himself "With his tongue sticking out like he was licking a girls private area in the air" I was appalled and so was my husband.
My husband and I are still working things out but he thinks I defintely need to tell my sister of the innapropriate behavior he has toward me.
If I did I would ruin her whole little happy world and risk the chance of her never talking to me again. I don't know how or when to tell her....
Any open opinions welcome. Thanks