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Posted 14th March 2009 at 2:23 PM by 4sure

i been wit my ex bf for a year now and he jus broke up wit me. A week ago he broke up with me saynin he need to focus on his self more. I talked things over and decided to get back together. I checked into school and thought i went so, he text me and sayd hit him when i get home and i didnt because i didnt go to school. the following morning i told him i didnt go to school and he broke up with me saying he need to be there for his son and he will always be my friend. We shared everything together. We were suppose to get married. What happen? When i text him he answer me quickly. Do any1 think he wants me to beg him back. are is he with someone else
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    It seems he isnt ready to get married and since he wants to be still friends so may be he is weighed down by his responsibility, I think you should have lot n lot of patience and try and talk to him whats exactly wrong.. All of sudden he is saying he isnt want to be with you means there has to be some valid reason, i suggest that first calm urself down , I know its difficult but if you wanna be with him first you have to fix yourself.. Though its heart-breaking,, take care,,
    Posted 14th March 2009 at 2:59 PM by bubbles5 bubbles5 is offline
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    I'm not sure it matters what his reasoning is for breaking up. It's done. You can't hold onto someone who doesn't want to be held.

    Don't wait around for him. Go no contact, heal and move on. Then find someone who's going to treat you better than to break up with you, twice in one week.
    Posted 16th March 2009 at 4:07 AM by Trialbyfire Trialbyfire is offline
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    try to take your time first and try to find out what made him to change his mind,and treat him nice as you talk to each other,by getting to know what he likes and what he dont like from you,okay! be strong and try to do something that can make you happy.
    Posted 6th April 2009 at 8:01 AM by amani amani is offline
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    Hiya, I know what it's like to be together, break up, come back, break up again. It is a process that depletes you of your self-esteem and could make you really bitter if you are not careful. I think you may need to focus on the tools for maintaining positive relationships before approaching your boyfriend again. If I were you, I would sit down and analyse the issues. There is the education issue: studying is absolutely necessary if you want to stand out from the crowd in this life. So find your life passion and study to become an expert in it. Be it painting, accounting, sewing, computing science, the most important is that you find what you have a passion for and decide to become the best in your field. As you focus on that, your ex, who I believe is still your friend, will start seeing you blossom and should feel proud of relating with you. Now whether or not he likes you once you have developed yourself is not the most important because when you study and walk in the direction of your dreams in life, your happiness will not be dependent on someone loving you, rather, you will be a fulfilled person. It takes 2 fulfilled people to make a successful relationship. I hope this helps to put things back into focus. Take care,
    Posted 7th April 2009 at 1:14 AM by Getting It All Back Getting It All Back is offline
    Updated 7th April 2009 at 1:17 AM by Getting It All Back (Formatting)
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    (Remember the distance or co lour does not matter but love matters a lot in life)
    Posted 10th July 2009 at 1:26 AM by tesseylove tesseylove is offline
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