thrillseeker Posted January 1, 2006 Share Posted January 1, 2006 Hi all, I had this friend of mine who is very insecure with women who likes to boast that hes a player and a pornstart etc etc and is needy overa who never really gets any. I would kind of laugh it off for a while, but then it started getting old since he was behaving really fake. On top of that, his political beliefs were very much incompatible with mine, and his ideas were simply offensive (ie communism is good, its too bad so manypeople died, it needs to be given another chance etc etc). Anyways, I ripped him a new one over email over some discussion and threw in some stuff about him an all his "supposed ladyz" and it looks like we're just gonna drop our friendship. I'm glad to be rid of him honestly. What I am concerned about is that we have some mutual friends, and one of our friends is a really really cool girl who I've been getting to know, who is admittedly attracted to me. We're gonna be snowboarding together. My former friend knows this and I am concerned that he'll try to trash talk me and ruin things. He has subtley tried to undermine before with another female who was attracted to me, but now that we're no longer friends I expect him to try to do damage. WHats the best way to deal with this type of a situation?? thx Link to post Share on other sites
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