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Which is worse:

Being devastated because your spouse isn't in love with you anymore;

Or being devastated because your not in love with your spouse anymore?

Like you actually hate him.

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Which is worse:

Being devastated because your spouse isn't in love with you anymore;

Or being devastated because your not in love with your spouse anymore?

Like you actually hate him.

 

Umm.. Both are devastating. (Not being married) I can say its probably worse to feel the rejection of your SO not loving you anymore.. But being stuck in a loveless relationship/marriage is just as confusing and upsetting. Hating the person takes it to another level. I would have to ask why you stayed to the point of hating the person but i've been there.

 

IMO, rejection is 'worse' to me...to have to deal with.

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Being rejected. Rejecting somebody else at least puts you in the driver's seat.

 

Hate seems like a strong word to apply to a spouse. Yes, when somebody who vowed to love you forever betrays your trust it can ruin everything.

 

Do you want to talk about what actually happened? Would MC help put things back together?

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