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Old 26th September 2017, 7:42 AM   #1
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What's Physically Attractive to you

What is it in one person over the other that makes your heart race and think of them in a romantic way. Voice/Face/Body type. For me I have narrowed it down.

Face. I am all about that face. The more kind and sweet a woman it to me. The more I would think of her in a romantic way. By Kind and Sweet. i mean she is making an effort to get to know me well.

She is single. I would rather have a woman that is slightly chunky with a great face vs great bod but face is dour and not bright looking.

We can't help what we look like for the most part. We can only modify as we age. I have a 66 yr old female friend and I think she is beautiful. She thinks she is average.

I like my look. I think I look cute/handsome. If i was in the movies. I would be cast as the good guy.

Anyways whats Physically attractive to you?
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Old 26th September 2017, 9:34 AM   #2
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Eyes get me first, along with smile. Then an overall masculinity. Not like giant and hairy with big knuckles, but a man who looks like a traditional male (in other words, if you have more hair products than me, we aren't compatible). Then arms and hands. I like strong arms - not necessarily large, just strong. And work worn hands drive me crazy.

A little Dr. House style scruff or goatee gets my motor running too. And a somewhat deep voice.

Hey....I just described my fiance....
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Old 26th September 2017, 9:42 AM   #3
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In pictures of multiple hot women, I am drawn to the ones with a smile on their face and a petite body. I like a round butt. Do not care much about the face other than it is not one that I would enjoy waking up to. I ended up marrying a 4' 11" 78 lb. woman. When we married she had small 32A breast but when she gained some weight they went to 36C. Bonus for me. She looked was the size of my 12 year old nieces who wore my wife's hand me downs, but had the shape of a woman. Men and women always turn their heads to look at her, mostly women. I used to think that they were looking at me since women usually did.

One day I stopped to look at something in a store window in a major mall. After I looked I was walking about 7 yards behind my wife. To my surprise, the women were all looking at her. A few year later my wife found out why, she is bisexual. In fact, all four women I loved and had a relationship are bisexual. I do not know why and I did not know beforehand, but for some reason I have never had a relationship with a hetero woman. So I am drawn to bi women without knowing they are bi.
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Old 26th September 2017, 9:47 AM   #4
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I like a rugged, manly look. Shoulders and smile are very important.
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Old 26th September 2017, 9:51 AM   #5
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I like a rugged, manly look. Shoulders and smile are very important.
Yes, shoulders.....the kind that can just envelop you in a hug....
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Old 26th September 2017, 10:08 AM   #6
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I know this is going to sound weird, but physical appearance doesn't register that much with me. I really don't know why. I am more sucker for a kind heart.
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Old 26th September 2017, 11:46 AM   #7
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Tiny thin women appeal to me. I'm turned off by anything over 5'6".

My ideal height is 5'3" or shorter. I like tiny hands and small feet. Nothing makes me gag more than big feet on a woman.

Long dark hair with brown eyes are also my favs. I prefer a feminine woman with a high pitched voice (not annoying, just not deep). I like soft features on the face and a nice small butt.

I don't really care about breasts and I've dated women who had almost none. Paramount to me is thin. I like a feminine woman.

As a result of my preferences I date a lot of Asian woman. I find very few white (American) women who fit my profile though I am open to them if they meet the criteria.

I wish I liked larger women as there appear to be a lot more of them especially in my age range.
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Old 26th September 2017, 11:48 AM   #8
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In pictures of multiple hot women, I am drawn to the ones with a smile on their face and a petite body. I like a round butt. Do not care much about the face other than it is not one that I would enjoy waking up to. I ended up marrying a 4' 11" 78 lb. woman. When we married she had small 32A breast but when she gained some weight they went to 36C. Bonus for me. She looked was the size of my 12 year old nieces who wore my wife's hand me downs, but had the shape of a woman. Men and women always turn their heads to look at her, mostly women. I used to think that they were looking at me since women usually did.

One day I stopped to look at something in a store window in a major mall. After I looked I was walking about 7 yards behind my wife. To my surprise, the women were all looking at her. A few year later my wife found out why, she is bisexual. In fact, all four women I loved and had a relationship are bisexual. I do not know why and I did not know beforehand, but for some reason I have never had a relationship with a hetero woman. So I am drawn to bi women without knowing they are bi.
4'11" and 78 lbs?!?!? You sir are now the subject of my internet envy!
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Old 27th September 2017, 10:44 AM   #9
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Going over my specific requirments. If there is one.

Hair- long hair that can be tied up. I don't have a lock on it. Although I love Redheads.

Eyes- I don't care about colour.

Face-. I like round faces and I like the baby face look.

Height- Don't care close to same or a little taller. I am 5'9.

My ideal relationship is as follows.

Single/Childless. No rush to have kids. Late 30's to early 40's. lean and lanky looking- think Ann Hathaway. Ethnicity-Black/White/Asian/Latino. Style-Bohemian- loves poetry and the arts. Wheres floral prints. Loves Rock and Roll/Folk/Jazz/Pop/Heavy Metal. Like to have interesting conversations and laughs. Light and easy for the most part. Playful and affectionate towards me. Well dressed and groomed.

Spiritual. If I had to use a character in Pop Culture. I would say Betty from the Archie comics.

At the end of the day. I would like to have softness when I am with her.

As for us getting together. I like it when a woman makes moves on me. I have more fun that way and I feel the relationship is stronger, than when I have to be the one to make all the effort or its mutual.


I really believe that I will have this type of relationship. Through prayer and thinking it will manifest for me. I just have to do one thing. Let go of trying to make it happen and I let it come into my life in an organic way. Whenever it happens. So not me trying to force Love in my life.

I had a Psychic reading about a month ago. The medium told me in a erie way when I asked do I have to go looking for love or do I let it just come to me.

She said that you want a certain type and you want her to be a certain way. Is human to be on the look out for love. There is no time when it will be perfect. Trust your heart and instinct.

My heart and instinct tell me for myself. Prayer and letting things come to me in its own time. So I don't have to always make the major effort romantically with women that I think I do. Some woman will see me and open her heart to me, which will trigger my opening my heart to her.

I think that a lot of us are going to have to go that route. Others may have to make that effort.
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Old 27th September 2017, 10:46 AM   #10
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Wish I could do a list like that. Historically, no rhyme, reason or pattern. I look back at all the women I've dated, had relationships with, or married and there are no physical commonalities at all, other than their gender. Sometimes I wonder if having a defined list would have made life easier. IDK.
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Old 27th September 2017, 10:49 AM   #11
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Curvy brunettes with a big smile and green eyes. Born in July. In Plainview, Texas.
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Old 27th September 2017, 12:34 PM   #12
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What makes my heart race? What makes me desire someone in a romantic way?

More than anything, what sits between their ears.

He’s gotta be smart, witty, charming. Smiles freely, is confident in his innuendos and flirty banter. Enjoys seduction and can stand up to me, to my strong personality, to my teasing.

I do have physical base lines… I swoon over big powerful shoulders, a strong physique, an extremely masculine presence (whether he is dressed as an athlete or in an on point suit). I don’t mind a little weight, but obesity is a huge turn off. He’s going to be taller, and stronger than me. I don’t care if he still has his hair, or if he looks youthful, or wizened by the years. Skin color, eye color, hair color and that stuff doesn’t matter. Good posture, confidence, good grooming and takes care of his body.

Honestly when it comes to turning my head – usually it’s a guy who reminds me of a past lover – because its really not that much about his “looks”. Maybe he’s tall dark and handsome like the Persian guy I knew. Maybe he is cut and fit, but yet a smaller frame like that triathlete guy who was great in bed. Perhaps his 6’4” in an impeccability tailored suit that reminds me of a certain someone.
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Old 27th September 2017, 1:14 PM   #13
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I would say a thin body with some meat on her hips and nice smooth legs do it for me. I'm not too picky about the face.
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Old 27th September 2017, 1:30 PM   #14
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I like coolness and a pretty face on men and mainly men with at least hair long enough to be styled. I have never thought any man with real short or buzzcut hair was attractive. I like them to have a style, preferably not a sports style but an artistic or musician style, but just some sort of style that you can tell they have some sort of identity. If a man is very conventional, I usually don't find him attractive, no matter how good looking he is.
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Old 27th September 2017, 8:53 PM   #15
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I like boobs.
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