belle_athletic Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 So here's the story, and I'm still feeling a bit off about it. I was assigned to an assignment with a school mate, and he came over to my place so that we could sort the details out. I'd always been ok with him, not too close and never thought much. We went for a smoke before going inside the house, but for some reason his sweater caught fire from the lighter and we had to quickly pull it off. Turns out he had a fantastic body, which I never knew about. I'd never been attracted to him before, but at that moment I was seriously turned on (maybe it's because I broke up with my previous boyfriend and hadn't dated in a few weeks). Playful touching quickly turned more heavy and I practically jumped him that day. Since then, we've been ok with it, not awkward, but I'm feeling weird because I'm normally quite careful and in control when seeing a new guy, but somehow I lost it that day. Anyone have a similar experience? Link to post Share on other sites
grays Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 Yes and I think you should just enjoy it! ☺ Link to post Share on other sites
Cookiesandough Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 (edited) No... I'm so cerebral ( Not intelligent. Just think too much) that it's hard for me to understand the "I didn't mean to have sex but they were so hot it just happened". I haven't had much such sex yet, so it is sort of a significant deal to me. I have a ton of thoughts before the first time sleeping with someone. I admire a physically attractive man, but it's almost not in a sexual way until I can put most of those thoughts to rest. It's not useful. What you described happened here sounds exciting. Edited September 23, 2017 by Cookiesandough Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 That's the nature of lust. Moreover, the adrenaline rush you both felt as you put out the flames from his sweater catching fire added fuel to the lust / hormones. If it's not awkward, simply carry on. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Cookiesandough Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 It's so natural and sexy. Primal. I think that's why hardcore porn appeals to me so much. It's just people acting on pure lust. Hot(in theory) Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 hell yes.... 2 Link to post Share on other sites
2.50 a gallon Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 For me it was love at first sight. From her, I was too short, too poor (t-shirt and blue jeans, she liked her men to wear business suits), too old, and two white (I was a gringo). I tried for 3 months to get a date. Nothing as she had been dating a guy for over a year. Then one day I got a day off in the middle of the week, and asked her if she wanted to go fishing with me. Such a surprise when she said yes. Truth was she had never ben to the river and wanted to go, and it gave her a chance to work on her tan as she had a big date that weekend. On the way to the river she reminded me we would never be boy friend and girl friend. I did everything right that day. Made a campfire, talked about life, horsed around in the water, and even stole a kiss. We caught fish, her first, and she wanted to eat it so off to my place. A bottle of wine to go with the fish. We ended up in bed, where I lasted for more than an hour, also was in too big of a hurry to use a condom. Her sexual experience was light, only two other guys, and none of them of them lasted more than 5 minutes. Next evening I answered a knock at the door to find her standing there with a pizza in her hand and wanting a repeat of last night, Boyfriend had been told he was history. That was my ex-fiance Link to post Share on other sites
Cersei Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 Don't smoke! Its bad for you! And dangerous! Lol And yeah lustful thoughts do come to most of us, Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 For me it was love at first sight. From her, I was too short, too poor (t-shirt and blue jeans, she liked her men to wear business suits), too old, and two white (I was a gringo). I tried for 3 months to get a date. Nothing as she had been dating a guy for over a year. Then one day I got a day off in the middle of the week, and asked her if she wanted to go fishing with me. Such a surprise when she said yes. Truth was she had never ben to the river and wanted to go, and it gave her a chance to work on her tan as she had a big date that weekend. On the way to the river she reminded me we would never be boy friend and girl friend. I did everything right that day. Made a campfire, talked about life, horsed around in the water, and even stole a kiss. We caught fish, her first, and she wanted to eat it so off to my place. A bottle of wine to go with the fish. We ended up in bed, where I lasted for more than an hour, also was in too big of a hurry to use a condom. Her sexual experience was light, only two other guys, and none of them of them lasted more than 5 minutes. Next evening I answered a knock at the door to find her standing there with a pizza in her hand and wanting a repeat of last night, Boyfriend had been told he was history. That was my ex-fiance Sweet story. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 Use it before you lose it, honey. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
LivingWaterPlease Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 For me it was love at first sight. ....... That was my ex-fiance Thought you were going to tell us that was your wife! Link to post Share on other sites
2.50 a gallon Posted September 24, 2017 Share Posted September 24, 2017 LWP I turned out to be too white. Her older sister was totally against her marrying a gringo and set out to break us up. The sister would make up lies. I would prove them wrong, to be faced with another set of lies a couple of months later. We were engaged for over 2 years, even had selected names for our kids. She kept pressing me to set a date, but I refused to until she got things settled with her sister. She gave me an ultimatum and when I refused she broke it off with me. I never did have kids Link to post Share on other sites
cocorico Posted September 25, 2017 Share Posted September 25, 2017 Use it before you lose it, honey. You *never* lose it. Link to post Share on other sites
Popsicle Posted September 25, 2017 Share Posted September 25, 2017 Oh yes, I have experienced it a few times. It's awesome. How to overcome it? Hopefully you won't, but in time he could turn you off with his behavior. Link to post Share on other sites
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