Scrab22 Posted December 6, 2016 Share Posted December 6, 2016 Hey people, how's it going? I've been having a huge dilemma about dating women. Neither sex nor sexual attraction have been the reason I wanted to date the women I dated. It has always been about their emotional appeal, or perhaps something deeper. I've always been thinking about relationships as spiritual partnership - where we can nurture each other, have life journeys, and just talk allot. A soulmate. I may care about the beauty in a way, but I don't need any sexual attraction in this. What I seek is getting away from the loud noises and have someone to walk a path with. I want to see a woman as a human, and love her wholly and purely, accept small things that don't feel right because that's what we'd all want. It's like a meaning of life for me. However I'm not innocent about this. I'm 22 years old. I've dated 3 women, each for 1.5 months. In time, friends commented about why am I not thinking about the sexual aspect of relationship (sexual attraction, kissing, sex, etc...). That issue extremely bothered me, creating a deep dark hole inside. After allot of deep searching, I've found out many things about myself. I've always struggled in relationships with women. I had very very few women friends, and those relationships have diminished in time. However, my deep inner will for a deep and pure relationship with a woman has remained sturdy. I'm not seeking The One. I'm seeking Some One. Someone I can share an amazing relationship journey. Turn the alien view of one another into ever-increasing love. I can write about this forever and it feels like a burning fire inside me. It feels way beyond the dating game world for me. I had to share this. What do you people think? Link to post Share on other sites
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