singlelife Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 I consider myself a good kisser. But it's not what I think it's what the girls think. I always have been told I have soft lips. So for you lady's out there is kissing a big deal for you? Link to post Share on other sites
losangelena Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 I consider myself a good kisser. But it's not what I think it's what the girls think. I always have been told I have soft lips. So for you lady's out there is kissing a big deal for you? Kissing is huge. Never to be underestimated. 11 Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 Not a woman but I have experienced a fair amount of women turning my friendly cheek kisses into full-on mouth contact so I'd surmise kissing, at some level, is important to them as an expression of something. For myself, that something has varied widely, from seeking my attention to expressing their love, whether platonic or romantic, to sexual attraction. As an oral person, heh, no complaints here. Link to post Share on other sites
TheArtist Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 I've been told often that I'm a good kisser, which is great because I really enjoy it. Doesn't really answer your original question to the ladies but I'm pretty sure as a gesture of affection, it's very important. Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 Kissing is part of what will allow me to connect with the man so yes it's important. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Snakechammah Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 It's not about the method or the kissing itself... but it is WHO you kiss. My Crush is a sloppy kisser (he's Latin!) and after every kiss, I'll always have to wipe my mouth. He leaves saliva everywhere! But it's ok. He can salivate all over my face, I'd still think his kisses are hott!! 3 Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 It's not about the method or the kissing itself... but it is WHO you kiss. My Crush is a sloppy kisser (he's Latin!) and after every kiss, I'll always have to wipe my mouth. He leaves saliva everywhere! But it's ok. He can salivate all over my face, I'd still think his kisses are hott!! I agree. I don't think there are universally good kisses. It depends on chemistry and overall attraction. Kissing allows us to swim in pheromones, and if the chemistry is right, the kiss is going to be hot. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Redfisher Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 Super important I think. One girl I dated never let me kiss her to the third date! Made sex on the first and second a little awkward... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
loveweary11 Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 The most important thing. Super hot, seductive, tension building makeout sessions are the cornerstone of a happy, healthy relationship. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Author singlelife Posted January 1, 2016 Author Share Posted January 1, 2016 Super important I think. One girl I dated never let me kiss her to the third date! Made sex on the first and second a little awkward... lol i bet. maybe that's why prostitutes don't kiss. too intimate. Link to post Share on other sites
Popsicle Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 Kissing is sooo important! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 I was reading another thread on cleavage and was commenting to myself on the kissing aspect that one lady I was involved with had practically no breasts but her lip cleavage, and kissing, was so awesome that I never noticed her chest until the first time we made love. Heh, now I remember how she dismissed her lips as 'fat', or whatever Russian word she used. Yeah, Angelina Jolie fat. Link to post Share on other sites
SoulCat Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 Kissing is sooo important! Agreed, it's hugely important. My man's kisses can turn my knees to jelly. Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 Probably the most important thing ....relationships succeed or fail on communication, and kissing is one of the most fundamental and effective forms of communication there is. The exchange of information (health, well-being, demeanor, relative happiness, issues, etc., etc.) is intense. (I sometimes have entire 'conversations w/my peeps where never a word is said. ) 2 Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 For me it's a very big deal. I like kissing (while soft lips are a plus, soft lips only get you so far). I need good kissing chemistry with a guy to move forward. If I hate how you kiss I pretty much get turned off and lose attraction to you. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
PrettyEmily77 Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 You can learn to be a better lover with experience but it's a lot more difficult to learn how to be a better kisser, IMO. IME, a really good kisser almost always translates into a very good lover, and I've heard it's one of the best ways to determine physical compatibility - the reverse is also true. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
67Chevelle Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 Kissing is huge. Never to be underestimated. Agreed! Both FWB I had in the past never wanted to kiss because they said that it "made it too personal" Link to post Share on other sites
Author singlelife Posted January 1, 2016 Author Share Posted January 1, 2016 You can learn to be a better lover with experience but it's a lot more difficult to learn how to be a better kisser, IMO. IME, a really good kisser almost always translates into a very good lover, and I've heard it's one of the best ways to determine physical compatibility - the reverse is also true. Really? Nice!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author singlelife Posted January 2, 2016 Author Share Posted January 2, 2016 A female friend of mine told me red lips on a man is inticing. Really? Isn't that lipstick? I'm confused. Link to post Share on other sites
S_A Posted January 2, 2016 Share Posted January 2, 2016 A female friend of mine told me red lips on a man is inticing. Really? Isn't that lipstick? I'm confused. I think that's just her way of saying a guy actually has lips. Some guys don't have lips and can be very thin. Link to post Share on other sites
Author singlelife Posted January 2, 2016 Author Share Posted January 2, 2016 I think that's just her way of saying a guy actually has lips. Some guys don't have lips and can be very thin. Big lips matter? Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted January 2, 2016 Share Posted January 2, 2016 Big lips matter? Depends on the person's perception; IME, they were like pillows, not to mention the, to me anyway, enticing look that was always there, even when 'naked' (no lipstick/gloss/liner). For another guy perhaps, nada. For me, important. With my example, our language communication was somewhat limited and we did a lot of communicating via how we embraced and kissed. Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted January 2, 2016 Share Posted January 2, 2016 Big lips matter? Not so much "big" as soft and full so to speak. A lot of guys seem to have thin lips, and it's not much fun to put a kiss on someone and have a collision w/their teeth. Link to post Share on other sites
Author singlelife Posted January 3, 2016 Author Share Posted January 3, 2016 Not so much "big" as soft and full so to speak. A lot of guys seem to have thin lips, and it's not much fun to put a kiss on someone and have a collision w/their teeth. Lol. But I do get the soft part. One girl shared if lips are soft like velvet then it's all over!!! She's hooked. Link to post Share on other sites
Leigh 87 Posted January 4, 2016 Share Posted January 4, 2016 The most important thing. Super hot, seductive, tension building makeout sessions are the cornerstone of a happy, healthy relationship. Yep. And even if your style isn't initially compatible with your partner, if the attraction and Chemistry are amazing then you WILL still feel super hot and alive from the kissing alone. And when you aren't dying to make out with your partner, and don't long for their kisses then it's likely to be a lack of overall chemistry at play. My ex wasn't into making out with me. I later discovered that he just wasn't that attracted to me. And it was the most evident through his lack of kissing. I would watch music videos and cry when I saw couples making out; it really bothered me that my guy didn't have that raw lust or passion for me. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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