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Frank2thepoint

I was going to post this in the sex subforum, but the video is just a social experiment. A funny and interesting one at that.

 

If I was approached by a woman for sex, I'd be very suspicious, and would decline, only because living in NYC I've become paranoid. I'd assume she would drug me and steal my kidneys to sell on the black market. I envy Californian innocence and care-free attitude in the video.

 

Aside from indulging a male fantasy, being inspired in part on Phoe's, and now BlackOpsZombieGirl's, threads about women approaching men (I'm sure there were other threads too), what I liked about the video is the ease the woman approached the men, and how majority of the men did not denigrate her or were obnoxious. A couple did. I would be interested in watching a similar video but with the woman just asking men out for a date, just to see how it goes.

 

The video is just under 20 minutes long:

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They did the same experiment on the vacation island Majorca once - and the girl was rejected every single time. :confused:

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Do that in a bar scene at 11 PM, not out in the daylight in the afternoon.

 

Do we really need a "social experiment" for this?

If a girl walked up to me like that and was moderately attractive as this woman is, I'd think there was something up... would I want to? Sure. Would I actually do it with some strange woman who is doing that at 3 PM in the afternoon right off the street? Probably not. Then again, I live in New Jersey.

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dreamingoftigers

That actually made me have hope for the future and faithful men.

 

A lot of those guys said no that they had girlfriends.

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I was going to post this in the sex subforum, but the video is just a social experiment. A funny and interesting one at that.

 

If I was approached by a woman for sex, I'd be very suspicious, and would decline, only because living in NYC I've become paranoid. I'd assume she would drug me and steal my kidneys to sell on the black market. I envy Californian innocence and care-free attitude in the video.

 

Aside from indulging a male fantasy, being inspired in part on Phoe's, and now BlackOpsZombieGirl's, threads about women approaching men (I'm sure there were other threads too), what I liked about the video is the ease the woman approached the men, and how majority of the men did not denigrate her or were obnoxious. A couple did. I would be interested in watching a similar video but with the woman just asking men out for a date, just to see how it goes.

 

The video is just under 20 minutes long:

 

 

 

LMAO I used to live in that town. I walked those streets every day. :love:

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LMAO I used to live in that town. I walked those streets every day. :love:

 

And in addition, as a normal female who lived in that very town, who approached men herself (NO I did not ask for sex!! Haha), yes, it is very normal that the men say no.

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If some attractive gal approached me for sex out the blue on the street one day, I would assume she had some guy hiding in the bushes somewhere to mug me (or I would assume she was doing an expiriment on camera LOL)

 

When I was young and coming of age. My very wise old mother told me there are only two kinds of honest women in the world that when it comes to sex, one will have sex in exchange for relationship/marriage/home/family etc and the other is for cash money up front. Those are the only two honest women. All others offering sex are some kind of scam or they have some kind of hidden agenda.

 

So far in 51 years I haven't seen anything that disproves that concept.

 

If some attractive gal just walked up to me out of the blue asking for sex without asking for cash in the next breath, I'd know she was up to something.

 

I would hope other men would be as equally wise.

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Is that more a West Coast thing?

 

Thinking toward all the girls in life, the 4 or 5 from CA were the most forward.

 

One random sexual escapade in CA I had was also the female pushing. Was on a cross country road trip with 2 friends. Stopped at a bar/hotel on Pacific Coast Highway. These2 girls invited us back to their hotel room along with 3 other dudes from the bar.

 

It's like 3pm!

 

 

The one girl decides she wants to hook up with someone. So she jumps around from guy to guy quickly checking on penis size. I won that round and ended up hooking up while everyone else went back to the bar.

 

Very forward!! Also other CA girls in my life just latch on and you're not saying no.

 

I have tons more stories of crazy stuff CA girls have done.... but seems they are just more likely to pounce on you.

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Is that more a West Coast thing?

 

Thinking toward all the girls in life, the 4 or 5 from CA were the most forward.

 

One random sexual escapade in CA I had was also the female pushing. Was on a cross country road trip with 2 friends. Stopped at a bar/hotel on Pacific Coast Highway. These2 girls invited us back to their hotel room along with 3 other dudes from the bar.

 

It's like 3pm!

 

 

The one girl decides she wants to hook up with someone. So she jumps around from guy to guy quickly checking on penis size. I won that round and ended up hooking up while everyone else went back to the bar.

 

Very forward!! Also other CA girls in my life just latch on and you're not saying no.

 

I have tons more stories of crazy stuff CA girls have done.... but seems they are just more likely to pounce on you.

 

 

 

California on it's own does have a bit of an odd dynamic.

 

 

But the big thing about this video is the town. The town is like no other town I've ever seen. That video depicts exactly the kind of thing that you could expect to see in that town. It is only 1 square mile, jam packed with people from an endless array of different backgrounds and cultures, with it's own laws and rules.

 

 

When I lived there, yes, I knew women who had no qualms about just asking a man if they wanna ****. And sometimes they did. Sometimes they didn't.

 

 

But Isla Vista is a weird, weird place. Love it, lived there for almost 5 years, but it's definitely odd.

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FWIW, this is the same town that Elliot Rodgers went on his shooting rampage through.

 

 

The dating/sex/romance scene in that town is very rough.

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thefooloftheyear

It's one thing for a woman to be forward and "go for what she wants"...Most guys would have absolutely no issue with that type of interaction...

 

Its entirely a different thing for a woman just to ask for sex....Even though its probably enticing most guys are going to be weirded out by it and think there was some "catch"....

 

I don't think there is any earth shattering conclusions to be drawn here...

 

TFY

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.Even though its probably enticing most guys are going to be weirded out by it and think there was some "catch"....

The catch I'm thinking of is a sexually transmitted infection.

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dreamingoftigers
The catch I'm thinking of is a sexually transmitted infection.

 

I actually LOLed when she said "i'm clean -- mostly!"

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I think anyone with even the slightest bit of common sense would suspect a setup.

 

Good to know that there are more people around with common sense than I thought, though. :laugh:

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dreamingoftigers
I think anyone with even the slightest bit of common sense would suspect a setup.

 

Good to know that there are more people around with common sense than I thought, though. :laugh:

 

I was surprised how many men weren't very shocked by it.

 

Like, "Oh hey, it's Tuesday, why can't these hoes just back off?"

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I only watched part of it but I didn't hear anyone ask "why?" I would consider taking her up on the offer but it would depend on why she's asking me and how her answer sounded to me.

 

The obvious assumption would be that she's a working girl who has taken to working the streets. Who else is going to randomly ask for sex? But I have jumped in the sack with women I'd only known for a couple of hours... in California. :D One approached me because she saw me reading a physics book and she thought that was hot! She was really beautiful Latino girl who could barely speak a word of English but we were in my bed in about two hours IIRC. She basically threw herself at me. That has got to be a one-in-a-million. And it wasn't too far removed from what this girl did in the video.

 

 

My roommate back then swore that some girl he didn't know jumped him in the laundry room. I remember wondering why he was taking so long. He finally came back grinning from ear to ear.

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I think more women should do that... to annoy men. Like they annoy us.

 

 

Because it's all about our needs, like it's all about their needs. Yea. Give 'em a taste of their own medicine.

 

 

Sounds like fun!

 

 

Long story short... wise people are put off by outrageous requests by complete strangers.

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I think more women should do that... to annoy men. Like they annoy us.

 

 

Because it's all about our needs, like it's all about their needs. Yea. Give 'em a taste of their own medicine.

 

 

Sounds like fun!

 

 

Long story short... wise people are put off by outrageous requests by complete strangers.

 

 

Ive never in my life, nor known any man in my life, who has flat out asked a strange woman for sex......Never.......If a man does it, and I am sure some do, then he probably should be on some sexual predator registry....So I am not sure how this equates to "turning the tables".....

 

I think the problem for a woman that wants to do it, even as a goof as you suggest, is she could easily find herself raped, beaten, and thrown in a ditch...Probably a pretty stupid idea...

 

TFY

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Ive never in my life, nor known any man in my life, who has flat out asked a strange woman for sex......Never.......If a man does it, and I am sure some do, then he probably should be on some sexual predator registry....So I am not sure how this equates to "turning the tables".....

 

That's the thing. It's not usual. I've been asked very directly one time - when I was 17 and on holiday with my parents (who weren't around). It was on the Copacabana beach. The man was speaking in Portugese, so I didn't understand what he was on about, until he pulled out a wallet and started counting notes. I found out later that it was because I'd been sunbathing close to the water (which apparently is what prostitutes do - or did back then). Also, I'd been playing in the water with some other girls who had seemed really friendly, but with hindsight were probably prostitutes.

 

Even in Rio, where I got hit on more than I've ever been in my entire life, it was just the one guy who was as blunt as that. Mostly men propositioning strange girls or women will want to "show you around - it's my day off" (if you're a tourist) or they'll ask you to go for a drink/coffee. Just sauntering up to a woman who isn't a prostitute and saying "hey - do you want to have sex?" isn't something a guy would really do, unless he were joking around/showing off in front of his friends.

 

So that video isn't really telling us anything other than that most reasonably cautious people of either gender are going to react in a mildly shocked and embarrassed (and ultimately with a "no") way to a stranger propositioning them for sex. One of my male friends does online dating. He gave me his login details to see some of the messages (I know...poor girls). Now and again a woman would send a message along the lines of "I think you're very handsome and I want to blow you." My friend is not exactly a shocked and alarmed wallflower about sexual matters, and nor is he averse to casual sex - but even for him, that's a bit much.

 

I agree with Frank that it would be better to have a video showing women just trying to chat men up. My guess is that most men would respond with various degrees of friendliness, but the ones who were shocked and suspicious about (and said no to) the offer of sex would probably react in a similar way, though not as shocked, to a strange woman trying to chat them up. I think generally anybody approaching complete strangers in that way would have to have a very thick skin, because a friendly enough but slightly weirded out "what do you want?" is going to be a common response.

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That's the thing. It's not usual. I've been asked very directly one time - when I was 17 and on holiday with my parents (who weren't around). It was on the Copacabana beach. The man was speaking in Portugese, so I didn't understand what he was on about, until he pulled out a wallet and started counting notes.

 

♫ His name was Rico, he wore a diamond

He was escorted to his chair, he saw [Gaeta playing in the water] ♫

 

All joking aside, I watched the video and wasn't surprised to see her rejected so many times by men she asked for sex, because I think most men were put off by it. But what if she were an ugly woman? Why didn't she make herself ugly, or use a less attractive woman to ask all of those men for sex on the spot? All her video proved is that most men have common sense enough to say no to some random woman on the street who asks them for sex.

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I think more women should do that... to annoy men. Like they annoy us.

 

Please... annoy me.

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Is that more a West Coast thing?

 

Thinking toward all the girls in life, the 4 or 5 from CA were the most forward.

 

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Very forward!! Also other CA girls in my life just latch on and you're not saying no.

 

I have tons more stories of crazy stuff CA girls have done.... but seems they are just more likely to pounce on you.

 

California on it's own does have a bit of an odd dynamic.

 

Several years ago I had a co-worker that came from California. She told me how California girls are generally more aggressive than the men, which many are resentful of. They meet men from the East Coast (such as from NYC) out in California, or some women move to the East Coast, and find the men to be more aggressive than their West Coast counterparts, which they admire. There is some truth to what Phoe is talking about in regard to the odd dynamic.

 

Maybe I'll go out to Cali and see what all the fuss is about.

 

 

I actually LOLed when she said "i'm clean -- mostly!"

 

I lost my sh*t when the guy in the car at 6:40 mark asked for the catch, she responds "You have to let me put it in your butt". I love her sense of humor.

 

Also I chuckled good when she approached the Cox Communications guy in the van at 3:40. Hearing her say "Oh my gosh I love cocks" was golden.

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My favourite is the guy at 8:30. He handles it in a classy way....though if he genuinely wanted to take her out on a date (and wasn't just being polite/nice) I'd be a bit dubious about him. Who really wants to date a person who just walks up to randoms in the street and invites them to have sex?

 

Then 9:30...the guy with the snake. It's not so much the snake I laughed at as the little boy in glasses in the background, grinning with gormless innocence at the inappropriate scenario unfolding in front of him.

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Ive never in my life, nor known any man in my life, who has flat out asked a strange woman for sex......Never.......If a man does it, and I am sure some do, then he probably should be on some sexual predator registry....So I am not sure how this equates to "turning the tables".....

 

I think the problem for a woman that wants to do it, even as a goof as you suggest, is she could easily find herself raped, beaten, and thrown in a ditch...Probably a pretty stupid idea...

 

TFY

 

 

You have got to be kidding me. Define 'a strange woman'. Men's definition of a 'stranger' is a lot different than a lot of women's. Talks to her for five minutes or text messages once or twice and all hell breaks loose with sex talk and penis pics, lol. So please...

 

 

And about the danger to the woman doing the reverse? I dunno about that. Depends on the woman.

 

 

Maybe if more men had more serious consequences than a polite rejection of their advances to strangers, then it would stop happening.

 

 

I know. Maybe women should just tazer every random guy who approaches them when they don't want to be approached.

 

 

Develop some app that gives the guys phone or computer a virus if he sexts you something out of line.

 

 

That would be awesome.

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