skyblue707 Posted November 26, 2014 Share Posted November 26, 2014 I say it's tasteless when random dudes do that. Link to post Share on other sites
Toodaloo Posted November 26, 2014 Share Posted November 26, 2014 I don't like it. But I don't make a fuss as I am going home with out him at the end of the day... Had one half naked young man grabbing my boob constantly... Nearly decked him but figured I would never see him again so all is good. Its a boob. I know mine are great, we were both drunk so why start hassle for the sake of it. He wasn't going to get what he wanted anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
evanescentworld Posted November 26, 2014 Share Posted November 26, 2014 Some guy did that with me, ages ago, and I just looked at him and told him he was pathetic. He asked me if I was a lesbian, then.... I couldn't stop laughing....Like, if I was rejecting his advances, I had to be a lesbian... nothing to do with his irresistible charm and magnetic personality.... 2 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted November 26, 2014 Share Posted November 26, 2014 I would never tolerate that from a stranger. Ever. Some guy tried that with me, I'd walk away. Link to post Share on other sites
littleblackheart Posted November 26, 2014 Share Posted November 26, 2014 Personal space hijacking, inappropriate and (generally) unwanted physical contact, complete disregard for the fact that it might trigger a whole host of bad memories for some people - yes, I'd say unless you were specifically invited to get closer, it's gross... Link to post Share on other sites
Haydn Posted November 26, 2014 Share Posted November 26, 2014 I would never tolerate that from a stranger. Ever. Some guy tried that with me, I'd walk away. Sorry about that Don. OP, i cannot imagine ever doing this. Link to post Share on other sites
nofeelings22 Posted November 26, 2014 Share Posted November 26, 2014 At Pacha in Manhattan, there was a guy with an erection, not even dancing, just "hopping" and thrusting around the dance floor, dry humping every girl he could find. Nastiest thing I ever saw. I can't figure out why he wasn't immediately thrown out on the curb. Clubs need to be very safe places where women feel comfortable and secure, but still able to have a little risque fun if it's consensual. I have mentioned it before... I'm around women only. Many times they are the hottest ones in the whole club. If i see some a hole making any of the women I'm with uncomfortable or sexually assaulting them when they are not into it, I don't hesitate to go right over and get in between them. It really bothers me when women are disrespected at that level. It's not right. Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle ma Belle Posted November 26, 2014 Share Posted November 26, 2014 Unless he was someone I was interested in, back the f*ck up! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Quiet Storm Posted November 26, 2014 Share Posted November 26, 2014 (edited) I don't go to the club anymore, but I used to hate it (unless it was my husband). This even happened at my high school dances back in the early 90s... we used to call it "freakin". It reminds of this classic from 1997 Just a little sample of the lyrics: I wonder if she could tell I'm hard right now Yeah, come on, dance for me, baby, yeah You feel that? Alright, come on, don't stop now You done did it, come on, yeah, alright, hold on Baby, when we're grindin', I get so excited How I like it, I try but I can't fight it You're dancin' real close, 'cuz it's real, real slow You're makin' it hard for me All the songs on you requested You're dancin' like you're naked It's almost like we're sexin' Yeah, boo, I like it, no, I can't deny it But I know you can tell I'm excited Step back, you're dancin' kinda close I feel a little poke comin' through on you Now girl, I know you felt it But boo, you know, I can't help it You know what I wanna do I recently chaperoned at a middle school dance, and 7th & 8th graders were grinding. Edited November 26, 2014 by Quiet Storm Link to post Share on other sites
almond Posted November 27, 2014 Share Posted November 27, 2014 I don't like it. But I don't make a fuss as I am going home with out him at the end of the day... Had one half naked young man grabbing my boob constantly... Nearly decked him but figured I would never see him again so all is good. Its a boob. I know mine are great, we were both drunk so why start hassle for the sake of it. He wasn't going to get what he wanted anyway. Lol, you act as though the only options here were to assault him or allow him to continue to grope you. You could simply tell him to stop and walk away, and speak to security if he does it again. This sort of thinking is concerning in my opinion. If you were enjoying it - fine. But the fact that you felt like hitting him indicates that you certainly didn't, so I would suggest that in future you take measures to stop this sort of thing. To answer the original question: a stranger grinding on me in a club is not something I would tolerate. Even if I were interested, I don't personally find this sort of behaviour with a stranger appealing. Many do, and that's all good - it sure looks like fun, it's just not for me. I don't find it difficult to reject unwanted advances politely and courteously(and then firmly but calmly if need be), and I certainly wouldn't think twice about doing so if someone was aggressively pursuing me in a nightclub. Link to post Share on other sites
Gloria25 Posted November 27, 2014 Share Posted November 27, 2014 I don't have that problem... When I used to go clubbing, I'd dance alone. Now, if I went on salsa night, I'd have to dance with someone (cuz you can't dance that alone), but I would not let them hold me close and/or I'd only dance with the guy I was seeing at that time. Now, if I'm out to the club with a guy I'm seeing...oh, trust me, he's getting the works Link to post Share on other sites
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