why behave as if in love?

[darkmoon]

my very bossy neighbour pestered me, and stalked me after i broke away

 

a couple of women who i could see were not loyal expected me to forgive them even though they were old enough to know better than to give me three days' of death ray stares, so i had decided not to get involved, they pesterd for four weeks, i was blunt, turned my back on them too, literally, still they pestered

 

i am not putting what happened under discussion, just giving an outline of aquaintances that i do not want to get involved with

 

i was only ever an acquaintance - -we never even swapped phone numbers, dealbreaker, were not close - - pestered me daily as well as the one stalking me

 

so why pester and chase as if in love?

Edited August 23, 2014 by darkmoon

[HeartDesires]

I'd love to help if I knew what you were talking about

[Lernaean_Hydra]

I'd love to help if I knew what you were talking about

 

Agreed.

 

I mean, I understand wanting to protect your privacy but there's a line between that and vagueness to the point of incoherence when you're looking for help with an issue...

[darkmoon]

not my issue

 

the issue belongs to people, mere aquaintances, who pestered me to be friends, even though i did not like them

 

why pester somebody so ardently? that is the question at hand

Edited August 23, 2014 by darkmoon

[Lernaean_Hydra]

not my issue

 

the issue belongs to people, mere aquaintances, who pestered me to be friends, even though i did not like them

 

why pester somebody so ardently? that is the question at hand

 

Jesus, I don't know...maybe they were under the assumption you were a nice person to have as a friend and weren't aware of how deeply you disliked them?

 

Naturally, since you continue to give little background my advice will obviously sparse. But I must say, as evidenced by previous threads, you always seem to be having some issue or another with a friend acquaintance. At this point, it's patently obvious the problem lies with you and definitely not them.

 

You also seem to think you are often being pestered by others for friendships like "people in love." However my honest opinion is that you're greatly overexerting or delusional. I highly doubt you're being hounded to be friends left and right.

Edited August 23, 2014 by Lernaean_Hydra

[darkmoon]

Jesus, I don't know...maybe they were under the assumption you were a nice person to have as a friend and weren't aware of how deeply you disliked them?

 

Naturally, since you continue to give little background my advice will obviously sparse. But I must say, as evidenced by previous threads, you always seem to be having some issue or another with a friend acquaintance. At this point, it's patently obvious the problem lies with you and definitely not them.

 

You also seem to think you are often being pestered by others for friendships like "people in love." However my honest opinion is that you're greatly overexerting or delusional. I highly doubt you're being hounded to be friends left and right.

 

no, one freind who was gambling, that is the "always" that you cite, i have enough friends already, not needing more

 

so i notice a couple of people whose behaviour is over the top, bullying/domineering, like your three rather obnoxious paragraphs

 

i remain baffled at their full-on impetus as well as yours

 

explain yourself and them, please

Edited August 23, 2014 by darkmoon

[William]

Do I really have to wade in and clean this up? Come on, folks, get a grip. Let's move forward with the topic without derogatory adjectives. It's nicer, more collaborative and ensures members continue to get to submit postings to our forum. Thank you ever so much!