WillJustHaveToSee Posted September 30, 2013 Share Posted September 30, 2013 The title says it all. I just haven't had sex in over two years. I haven't missed it mind you, but lately I have been watching movies and there are sex scenes that made me start to miss it. It feels like whatever sex I did have happened in another life time and it is so disconnected from me, I feel it wasn't even me who had the sex. I've been taking approach as trying online dating, which I can only get far enough to say "hi there", or when I get a message from a girl I respond with "hello", then the conversation dies from there. I am a very awkward person when I talk to girls also. This has been the way it is since my last serious relationship ended over 3 years ago. I don't miss my ex but I think as a defense mechanism I developed an awkward personality towards girls and I don't even look at them anymore (I don't make eye contact with one unless I have to). I cannot say that I want to necessarily be in a 'relationship' because I have no time as my studies and my hobbies take up most of my time, but I do want to have sex with an attractive girl. How do I do this? I have been considering hiring an escort but I don't know how to go about this I'm in Los Angeles, CA if that helps Link to post Share on other sites
cif Posted September 30, 2013 Share Posted September 30, 2013 The title says it all. I just haven't had sex in over two years. I haven't missed it mind you, but lately I have been watching movies and there are sex scenes that made me start to miss it. It feels like whatever sex I did have happened in another life time and it is so disconnected from me, I feel it wasn't even me who had the sex. I've been taking approach as trying online dating, which I can only get far enough to say "hi there", or when I get a message from a girl I respond with "hello", then the conversation dies from there. I am a very awkward person when I talk to girls also. This has been the way it is since my last serious relationship ended over 3 years ago. I don't miss my ex but I think as a defense mechanism I developed an awkward personality towards girls and I don't even look at them anymore (I don't make eye contact with one unless I have to). I cannot say that I want to necessarily be in a 'relationship' because I have no time as my studies and my hobbies take up most of my time, but I do want to have sex with an attractive girl. How do I do this? I have been considering hiring an escort but I don't know how to go about this I'm in Los Angeles, CA if that helps Naturally if you don't show interest the convo will die. Try reading the profiles first and ask open ended questions. How's your social life otherwise? You make it sound like there are no women in your life. Link to post Share on other sites
Author WillJustHaveToSee Posted September 30, 2013 Author Share Posted September 30, 2013 Naturally if you don't show interest the convo will die. Try reading the profiles first and ask open ended questions. How's your social life otherwise? You make it sound like there are no women in your life. My social life is not really existent. The girls I do know are family members and a girl that I text but I text her once around every three months. She is strictly a hanging out friend and nothing sexual will ever come out of it. Link to post Share on other sites
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