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Old 18th July 2013, 12:01 PM   #1
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Ladies, what's on your checklist?

What is it that you want in a man? Please tell.
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Old 18th July 2013, 12:04 PM   #2
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Good sex, no STDs, hygienic, and available when I specifically want him, which would be just for sex.
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Old 18th July 2013, 12:08 PM   #3
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Good sex, no STDs, hygienic, and available when I specifically want him, which would be just for sex.
right, and you think it's a good place to advertize this?
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Old 18th July 2013, 12:11 PM   #4
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right, and you think it's a good place to advertize this?
I'm advertising? I thought I was answering a question.
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Old 18th July 2013, 12:14 PM   #5
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I've dated and enjoyed spending time with a really wide variety of men, but if I had to describe my ideal... in no particular order of preference -

Established in his career
Above average height
Wants to settle down
Similar age to me

Not too bothered about any other physical attributes, eg build/race, but I do have a fondness for bald/shaven heads.

I don't think my list is too long or unrealistic.
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Old 18th July 2013, 12:17 PM   #6
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Not too bothered about any other physical attributes, eg build/race, but I do have a fondness for bald/shaven heads.

I don't think my list is too long or unrealistic.
It's not unrealistic at all. I bet the bolded part makes a lot of men's days.
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Old 18th July 2013, 12:25 PM   #7
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My boyfriend is pretty much everything I have ever wanted in a man.


-Other than the norm (kind, loyal, etc.) a big thing that I wanted was a man who was interested in art and culture more than video games.
-Open minded, my ex was such a bigot it made me realize how much it meant to be with someone who was accepting of all people from different walks of life.
-Family oriented. Someone who was close to their parents, and whom I felt would make an amazing parents themselves.
-Has goals and is passionate. I never cared if a guy worked in retail or lived at home, as much as I cared about what he planned to do to change it. Aspiring to be more and working hard to become it is something I have always valued and looked for.
-Polite and good taste. My ex was so rude, his manners were absurd. I was embarrassed and since then I vowed to only date men who held themselves with class.
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Old 18th July 2013, 12:37 PM   #8
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Compatible
-spiritually
-sexually
-intellectually
-lifestyle/views

I have preferences physically but no specific "type", and I can become wildly attracted to someone who fascinates me intellectually, even if they aren't "attractive" to others.

MUST LOVE KISSING AND ANIMALS
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Old 18th July 2013, 12:42 PM   #9
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I would like to add one more thing - the loving animals thing. I can't be with anyone who doesn't love animals.
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Old 18th July 2013, 3:41 PM   #10
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-in reasonably fit shape, is active
-enjoys my sense of humor and banters easily with me
-doesn't look like an old grandpa
-intelligent
-compliments me often
-confident, assertive
-is a good dad
-likes dogs
-has a job
-likes people
-affectionate and loves kissing
-is optimistic and fun to be around
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Old 18th July 2013, 3:45 PM   #11
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Kind, Open minded, Proper hygiene, Employed

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Old 18th July 2013, 4:09 PM   #12
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MUST LOVE KISSING AND ANIMALS
Missed out the "And" first time I read that. Was kinda worrying.
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Old 18th July 2013, 4:13 PM   #13
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-doesn't look like an old grandpa
Heh, I had thought you were an old grandpa.
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Maybe its OLD..But I see quite a lot of women have champagne taste and a beer budget....

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Old 18th July 2013, 6:16 PM   #15
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Compatible
-spiritually
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-intellectually
-lifestyle/views

I have preferences physically but no specific "type", and I can become wildly attracted to someone who fascinates me intellectually, even if they aren't "attractive" to others.

MUST LOVE KISSING AND ANIMALS
It's a good thing I love kissing and animals. Bobcats especially >:3
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