I personally would not touch a guy with long hair with a ten foot pole. I have only ever been attracted to guys with short hair, and my friends feel the same. Long hair on guys usually looks unkempt and unclean. Even if it is well managed, it just looks like the guy is either too lazy to get the chop or trying too hard to look different. Long hair went out with 1977.
I'm not saying go get a buzz cut or anything, but you'll open the door to more girls if you get a decent hairstyle. It can mean the difference bwteen you looking like an achiever rather than a slacker. Of course, if you're into the goth or grunge scene, or keen to join an extremist liberal group on campus, then keep growing it.
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I absolutely LOVE long hair. It's been a quirky little fetish of mine ever since I was about ten years old. (I probably watched a few too many Tarzan movies. )
But I'm not the only gal out there who appreciates a man with a healthy mane. My boyfriend is CONSTANTLY approached by women and the first thing they always comment on is his hair. It's blond, wavy and hangs down to his waist. It drives the ladies wild!
As a matter of fact, just last week when we were dropping his truck off, the girl behind the counter at Firestone commented on how she wished her boyfriend would grow his hair long like J's. Heck, I even dragged him into Joanne’s Fabrics with me one day and the old ladies behind the register were fawning all over him! I've never been with any other man who got so much attention just because of his hair! And he doesn't look 'sloppy' or unkempt. He keeps it pulled back most of the time and even works in an office environment.
I think if you want to grow your hair, than you should give it a go. But please...NO MULLETS!
Long hair can look great and sexy on some guys (expecially if it's always very clean and well kept), and horrible and gross on others.
A male friend of mine (who looks *exactly* like Legolas from Lord of the Rings apart from pointed ears) has gorgeous long hair that many women would envy!!!
it's all iffy, some like some don't just as any other preferences
I don't care about long hair but currently mine's long, I'd say uni length down to the bottom of my neck. It's long cuz my hair grows too damn fast and I'd be even poorer if I had hair cuts all the time . Before this it was buzzed.
Here's some fun for you to think on. Before, my hair was past my man boobies then I buzzed and not only that but took a razor to the scalp. Then I let it grow out to what it is now. If I was rich I'd have my head shaved everyday...but damn that hurts. How do some guys do it? Do you have to be balding on top to make it work? I wish I was slick bald...hairless is the way to go baby! hehe.
Yeah, lots of people love my hair. I tell them I'm going to cut it and they go "nooooooo", lol. I makes the ladies swoon....then they find out I have no money or weed and then it's splitsville!
Sure they do--the same way some girls prefer a certain color of hair, or a body type. The only guys I have dated all have had very long, dark hair. Some girls like a guy to be clean cut, some like hippie types, some like athletic looking guys, etc.
What's more important is that if you like having longer hair, why chop it off just to impress someone? Be content with who you are. Just keep if clean, use a hair detangler and conditioner a lot if it tends to be dry--women who like long hair usually like to touch it as well.
I have to agree with most of the ladies that have replied here...I happen to LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE long hair on guys, but if it's not well maintained, it's just as unappealing to me as spiky-gelled short hair on most fellows I've seen around lately.
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