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Hi guys! Listen please don't give me crap over this but I'm just looking for people's opinions and advice. Basically straight to the point I'm 25 my sister is 23 we are very close and get on well most of the time.

 

I am however extremely sexually attracted to her which is nothing new. It started when I was about 16 and her 14 and has never faded since , if anything it has intensified. Nothing has ever happened obviously but I just don't understand why I'm so turned on by her, I would even go as far as saying if I could have sex with one person in the world of my choice it would be her. She is good looking but not amazing, good body nice shape and that. I fantasise about her not joking , maybe every second night and these fantasies happen day and night and are really intense! In the fantasy the sex is mind blowing!

 

What should I do?

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Hi guys! Listen please don't give me crap over this but I'm just looking for people's opinions and advice. Basically straight to the point I'm 25 my sister is 23 we are very close and get on well most of the time.

 

I am however extremely sexually attracted to her which is nothing new. It started when I was about 16 and her 14 and has never faded since , if anything it has intensified. Nothing has ever happened obviously but I just don't understand why I'm so turned on by her, I would even go as far as saying if I could have sex with one person in the world of my choice it would be her. She is good looking but not amazing, good body nice shape and that. I fantasise about her not joking , maybe every second night and these fantasies happen day and night and are really intense! In the fantasy the sex is mind blowing!

 

What should I do?

 

Get professional help. If you want it bad enough, its out there. Or you could forgo social norms and try and seduce your sister in an attempt to get in her pants and live your fantasy. I suggest the former as the latter is just so wrong on many levels.

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Thanks for your reply! I really don't think I would ever act on it given the consequences but sometimes I just feel possessed when I'm around her and I don't understand it! I just don't trust myself sometimes because the lust is so strong!

 

Maybe I just tell her and if she is up for it just do it! If we both consent maybe we should just get rid of the sexual tension!

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Cracker Jack

Even if you think you'll never give in to your lust, you still need help. This clearly isn't normal. Maybe try to spend less time around her and actually put yourself around other women you're attracted to.

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Yes I realise it's not normal or at least not the norm ! She isn't even that attractive I think it's just the whole taboo think..

 

Just wondering if people had heard of this kind of situation before!

 

Thanks .. Keep responses coming

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Yeah, get help. It may be some deep rooted problem that may be causing the attraction.

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Not wanting to feed into anything, but some psychologists claim there is a something called genetic sexual attraction. Often it shows up when siblings or parent/child of the opposite sex are separated for decades, whether due to separation from birth or giving the child up for adoption. Just throwing it out there because just knowing there are supposedly other cases out there, it might dispel the initial attraction, considering that the thing you just might be attracted to is the idea that it's forbidden.

 

And I agree with the others. See a therapist who can help you understand why you feel that way and hopefully help you ease out of it.

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Hi guys! Listen please don't give me crap over this but I'm just looking for people's opinions and advice. Basically straight to the point I'm 25 my sister is 23 we are very close and get on well most of the time.

 

I am however extremely sexually attracted to her which is nothing new. It started when I was about 16 and her 14 and has never faded since , if anything it has intensified. Nothing has ever happened obviously but I just don't understand why I'm so turned on by her, I would even go as far as saying if I could have sex with one person in the world of my choice it would be her. She is good looking but not amazing, good body nice shape and that. I fantasise about her not joking , maybe every second night and these fantasies happen day and night and are really intense! In the fantasy the sex is mind blowing!

 

What should I do?

 

 

 

You've left out huge elements of this.

 

We have no idea whether you are biological brother/sister... or whether you've been together all through your lives... or any other unique dynamics.

 

 

There was a lengthy and interesting Loveshack tale many months ago about a step-brother and step-sister who were thrust (is a good word) together as middle teens via their parents' marriage... who then began to have a relationship of their own.

 

We need more clarity.

 

 

And, say, another scenario which could make such a thing logical (if not NORmal)... between full bio siblings who had been together their whole life... would be IF one or both of the pair had been perhaps sexually abused by an older sibling at a very early age.

 

It could then seem normal/logical that said sibling was made capable of strong sexual attraction to a younger sibling (likely of the same gender as the abuser).

 

Hope this makes sense.

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Apologies we are biological brother and sister and never of us has ever been subject to any abuse.

 

As I have said nothing has every remotely happen between us but it just the consistency and intensity of the fantasies.

 

I think maybe the taboo thing might be a viable point alright! Thanks for the opinions! It's a strange one no doubt

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dreamingoftigers

Oh my god people,

 

stop encouraging this. seriously.

 

Seriously, go to speak a professional ATSA or CSAT counselor.

 

They deal with sexual issues far better then regular counselors.

 

This could impact any other relationships that you attempt and there's a good chance that your sister has picked up on this and NOT in a receptive way.

 

Do NOT pursue this. Incest is more then just taboo. It is damaging to the WHOLE family.

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MuscleCarFan

It's only okay if you are not biologically related. In any case, see a counselor to talk about how you feel and how you can get around this feeling toward your sister.

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Forever Learning
Get a girlfriend.

 

Oh please yes, get a girlfriend, any girlfriend.

 

You need to get laid on a regular basis to get this nonsense out of your system.

 

Hopefully you will grow out of this in a few years. This fantasy of yours, if you try to pursue it, will destroy your whole family.

 

Please, just get busy in life, work out, pursue hobbies, and get a girlfriend.

 

Whatever you do, don't watch porno with incest themes. It will only encourage you.

 

I don't think anything bad about you, there is no animosity in my post here. I am just trying to prevent a disaster in your family. Try to direct your hormones elsewhere.

 

And yes, seek counseling! All the best to you.

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Well I bit the bullet and told her about all these stupid impulses I was having and I didn't get the reaction I expected!

 

She was taken back at first obviously it seemed but then she said I know what you mean, I've wanted "that" "just once" for a long time too!

 

Then I stalled for what seemed like ages but finally said we know we can't do anything about it!

 

She said "why, who cares" and walked over and sat ontop of me on the chair I was sitting. She stayed there for a few seconds and said "if u want me you can have me" she then got up and left the room!

 

Holy ****! What is going on

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Just be sure to use protection.

 

Kids have a higher chance of birth defects if the parents are siblings.

 

And you don't want him for a son.

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january2011

This is a bad idea. I think that an important lesson to learn in life is that just because you can, doesn't mean that you should.

 

This is a life-changing moment and you need to be sure that you know what the consequences are. Even just having sex with her will change your relationship dynamic and the dynamic in the family. This is something that you can't take back. There will be deep repercussions if she becomes pregnant. Not just for the baby, but for the both of you and the rest of your family.

 

I think that you need to get out of this situation. You are in your mid-20s, you need to be out there meeting people and building the adult life that you want to lead. I strongly suggest that you see a therapist, as the others have mentioned. Move out and buld a life of your own that doesn't heavily involve your sister and the rest of your family.

 

I really do hope that you do the sensible thing. I've no doubt that this kind of stuff does happen but I will concerned about the sincerity of your posts if you then come back and say that she's pregnant.

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incest is illegal. the only advise is spend a little less time with her, and go after other women, and stop fantasizing your just feeding into this.

 

that being said.

 

the most difficult question i was ever asked in philosophy was, why is incest wrong?

 

if take away the moral, religious, social ideas, constructed around it. also eliminate the possibility of reproduction.

 

so why would homosexual incest be wrong? given of-course, that is between two consenting adults. why should it be illegal?

 

 

i still haven't found a logical answer for that neither did all my class, other then EWWW.

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TheUnthoughtKnown

Sister of mine, home again....

Sister of mine, home again...

 

Sorry, I got Sister Europe in my head while reading this. Anyway I'm not for incest. I have three sisters all older than me and I can guarantee you, I've never felt sexual feelings for them. I think it's pretty sick but then again, people along time ago thought the same of black people and homosexuals. I'm not putting them in the same category, I'm saying the world grows more open minded. My cousin came out the closet a few years ago and our grandmother broke down into tears. I got angry with her and asked her what her problem is. She responded "when I was growing up, being gay was illegal, you just didn't do it. It was like being a murderer, people just didn't want to know you." I understood then that the world was a totally different place. Try telling someone in the 50s there'd be a black president one day, it just wouldn't have been accepted. Remember humans once thought that the Earth was flat. We are narrow minded but more open minded with each generation. I guess what I'm saying is, I don't think there should be a moral question involved, we can't help who we're attracted to, but there should be a medical one. If she got pregnant, you do not want a child to grow up in that environment, nor with the physical and mental deformities it's likely to incur. I do believe therapy would be a good option and sleeping with your sister is probably not, for the problems it'll cause your family.

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Obvious troll thread.

 

agreed.

 

just can't believe this, lol.

 

but if it's true, very very sad. this is gonna end badly for joe.

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