Originally Posted by Scottie
Yes. She had too so she can pay for the room she rents ect.
as you're paying to see her (albeit not paying to go shopping, but all other times) you need to be aware that she is providing you with a service. that doesnt just mean the sex, alot of people go to escourts for the company and conversation.
What I mean is she is very agreeable to you, you have a nice time together, you think that she likes you back. that could just means she's very good at her job.
You need to be very careful that you're not mistaking business for pleasure and sincerity of emotion.
as you are falling for her, you dont really have any other choice than to say how you feel. there is a possibility that she really does genuinely like you too, but she wouldnt say because it would not be deemed to be 'professional' and also, she may have just put you in the 'nice client' pigeon-hole.
You certainly cant carry on paying to have sex with someone you genuinely like and expect to keep your sanity.
Also, if you did both end up having a relationship, be aware that your feelings towards her profession may change (even if she isnt doing it anymore). I'm sure you're a very tolerant person, I just dont know that many people could handle being with someone who has had sex with people for money, albeit now or in the past. I'm not judging her, I'm just saying thats how people can be.