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My cousin is trying to runaway i need a parents view on this


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I don't have kids, i was told to speak to him but i don't know what to say, he showed up at my house last night out of no where i live really far from him and he came walking. He wants to runaway up north he has no money no documents nothing he just left his house. He is a teen apparently he is talking with someone online who is convincing him to run off with a friend and he set his mind to it. I feel terrible and was wondering if any of the parents on here can help me out since i don't have kids and really don't know what to do. I am worried about him and i don't know what to say to him, he is sleeping now and i am trying to convince him to stay but i don't know what he will do once he wakes up. His mom gives him everything he wants but is really strict with him like he can't get a license or go anywhere etc he is not the only child he has a little brother but his mom prefers him over his brother.

 

Can someone please guide me in what to say to him i don't know what to do his mind is set on running off. He is just a kid he is 16/17! This is really scary i don't know what to do, i told his mom that he is here but i told her not to show up because i don't want him to loose trust and disappear and for us to not hear from him or anything so i want to talk to him but not sure what to say.

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Keep the lines of communication open. Let him vent. Point out all the flaws in his plan.

 

If he's so keen on this other person, give him a safe space where you can talk to the other person & if the other person is genuine (which I doubt) perhaps you can chaperone a safe meeting between them.

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