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My H does not want to spend Thanksgiving w/ my family


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My sister and bil are having TG this year and H does not want to go. My bil and H do not get along, especially after what we went through two years ago (H had an A during our seperation). H said he is not going. He said the kids and I could go but he wasn't going. I asked H why he was so willing to go if my parents had it but wont if my sister is having it. He told me he figured my sister and bil wouldn't go if my parents had it. So now what do I do? I don't want to miss out on my TG w/ my family but yet I don't want to spend it alone w/o H. He is being unreasonable. I don't get along w/ my one sil but I don't let her ruin things for me when it comes to family. H is extremely uncomfortable about going to their house and does not want to be around my bil.

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slubberdegullion

Go on our own. Having H there when he doesn't want to be there would only cause more tension, so go and enjoy yourself.

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