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Old 8th October 2017, 7:20 PM   #16
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I am upset we are not talking .... it’s not a good thing but she wants me to collude ... I am not down for that
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Old 9th October 2017, 12:25 AM   #17
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Perhaps divorce court will cure her tonsillitis.
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Old 28th October 2017, 11:42 AM   #18
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It is now 2 months of no talking .... this whole situation stinks
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Old 30th October 2017, 5:24 AM   #19
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It is now 2 months of no talking .... this whole situation stinks
then, start talking.

" i love you but i can't condone shady behavior and i hope you're not stupid enough to believe i will."

"until you get a divorce and live your life above board you can't be part of my life."

"i can't have people thinking that we share the same values and i can't have your behavior reflecting on my reputation or on your daughters''.

'' have you even thought about the position you've put her in??" "no, you only think of yourself".

" so just think of yourself as an only child till you come out of this fog you're in''.

"yes, it's called a fog, look it up''.

love, your sister
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Old 30th October 2017, 6:56 AM   #20
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then, start talking.

" i love you but i can't condone shady behavior and i hope you're not stupid enough to believe i will."

"until you get a divorce and live your life above board you can't be part of my life."

"i can't have people thinking that we share the same values and i can't have your behavior reflecting on my reputation or on your daughters''.

'' have you even thought about the position you've put her in??" "no, you only think of yourself".

" so just think of yourself as an only child till you come out of this fog you're in''.

"yes, it's called a fog, look it up''.

love, your sister
I really do love my sister and I have said all of the above before our fall out ... she did not want to address anything she just wanted to be passive aggressive
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Old 30th October 2017, 7:07 AM   #21
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So I am not wrong???
Unless you are a medical doctor you are not wrong. There's nothing you can do. She needs a doc.
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Old 30th October 2017, 1:11 PM   #22
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Unless you are a medical doctor you are not wrong. There's nothing you can do. She needs a doc.
That ship has sailed lol
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Old 31st October 2017, 2:48 AM   #23
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I really do love my sister and I have said all of the above before our fall out ... she did not want to address anything she just wanted to be passive aggressive

can you write her a letter and mail it?

the only other thing that comes to mind, in that case is..."leave them alone and they'll come home".

sorry you have to go thru this.
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can you write her a letter and mail it?

the only other thing that comes to mind, in that case is..."leave them alone and they'll come home".

sorry you have to go thru this.
I am of the idea that I have to leave her to get on with her life, her choices but it still hurts as she is posting Memes on Facebook saying things like ... When you go through the worst storms you see the true colours of the people who say they care for you

Itís not easy as she is so passive aggressive and takes no blame
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sometimes bad things(storms) happen to good people, it's called karma.
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