ben.1991 Posted October 31, 2014 Share Posted October 31, 2014 hi my cousin has been sitting on my lap holding on to me wanting me alone with her holding hand jumpping on me now snuggling up to me. shes shown no interest in boys my sister her mom is a bit worried in whats happing im 5yrs older and girls have done this with me since high school ive thought nothing of it is there something to be worried about? Link to post Share on other sites
Ronni_W Posted October 31, 2014 Share Posted October 31, 2014 is there something to be worried about? YES! But you already know that, which is why you posted here in the first place. You haven't included your ages, but you did reveal that she is of an age where she could be showing interest in other boys. Why are you not stopping her? It strongly comes across that you already know it is inappropriate behaviour. WHY are you not stopping her and taking yourself out of harms way, including potentially being accused of being a "perv"??? Your sister - her mom - has already expressed such concern. So, why are you not stopping her and protecting your own reputation? Link to post Share on other sites
Author ben.1991 Posted October 31, 2014 Author Share Posted October 31, 2014 thanks im not very good at reading people i take everything in good fun n she is of age and im not intrested in her that way Link to post Share on other sites
Ronni_W Posted October 31, 2014 Share Posted October 31, 2014 thanks im not very good at reading people i take everything in good fun n she is of age and im not intrested in her that way Does NOT at all answer the question of why you're not stopping it, ben.1991! She is younger and more impressionable than you. And how is "I'm not very good at reading people" going to help you when you can no longer control what comes across as your obvious urges, impulses and proclivities? (Not saying that my interpretation is accurate; trying to convey how it is (you are) coming across.) Link to post Share on other sites
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