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My Cousin Bugs The Crap out of me!! I want to tell her to Get Lost!!


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Okay Okay...

 

I have this Cousin she's 34, I'm 27 male. I don't see her that often(we live 45 min.away from each other)

and I'm not REALLY close to her, but know her..

know what's she's into etc. she's single, has never had great luck

in relationships, has friends, but always in fights

or in cahoots with them because somebody said something she didn't like, acted a way she didn't like etc.. She is a Partier.

She likes to go clubbin. etc. Tries to stay youthful, always tries to get us cousins (in our early to mid twenties) to

go out to disneyland or go to chucky cheese and play video games(kid stuff)

 

My Problem is, She has the tendencey to be a bug and be very bossy.

She's always nice to everyone, but likes

to control situations and if something isn't going her way

she gets bitchy and bossy and gets an attitudue or

shows her dislike or disgust, she's very opinionated.

 

She's been calling me a lot lately trying to get me to go out with her, go out and party. Personally, I'm not into clubbing or

bars or partying. I'm into music, Art, Poetry and museums, so is my girlfriend i live with.

 

Anyway, before this gets to boring and too long, She will NOT get a

clue that i just don't like hanging out with her.

We really don't have anything in Common at all. Yet she calls, emails,

calls, emails. If i call her, she acts like she is so so so grateful that i called her,

like I'm a movie star or something. She's always "You never call me, I wanna go

Out, I Love You"(btw, She tells all my cousins she loves them)She's just a Pain in the ass.

I don't want to be mean to her, but I feel like telling her something. Up until now, I've always

just dodged her calls,

said i was busy or just haven't gotten back to her. she bugs my other cousin

a lot more, because they live in the same town.

He just dodges her, says he's to busy, she'll snub him for a few weeks then call him to go out.

He seems to think it's because her friends get sick of her bitchiness and bossiness that they ditch her lots

of times, so she turns to us, seeking buddies to go out drinking and partying

 

I want to tell her that she needs to chill out and take it easy,

 

How do I do That????????????????????

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Tell her she's being bossy and a pest and that her needy attitude is alienating you from her, and tell her that you care about her because she's your cousin, but you really don't want to hang out with her all the time, and ask her to stop calling and emailing you all the time - if you want to see her you'll call. If her feelings are hurt it is up to her to deal with it. She can choose to be hurt or angry, or she can choose to not to feel that way.

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I want to tell her, but I know if i do, The Sh*t will hit the fan and she'll

gossip to the whole family about how rude i was to her to call her

bossy or a pest. But who cares, right? I shouldn't care. I'm a nice guy,

i'm loving and very supportive of my loved ones, never want to be mean to anyone

other than mean people...But this chick bugs the sh*t out of me. She annoys me to no END!!

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