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Where you find that someone of us don't get along with our SO's family as well. Or at least some of them.
O I don't blame you one bit for not wanting to go. I wouldn't either. Besides you went their for Thanksgiving. What about your family or staying home?
You need to think of anything that you might have said the last time you seen them that may have offended them. Anything that might led them to not like you. Even if you think it didn't you might have. You said that you met the extended family. Does that mean that they weren't at the wedding. Maybe the whole getting married thing had something to do with it.
I don't know. Just throwing things out here. That or maybe they just don't like you.
It's nothing that you did while you were they because they ignored you from the moment you walked in there. They had their mind made up long before you arrived.
No offense but your H is an a$$ for not stepping in and saying something. He shouldn't have left you alone if you were uncomfortable. Did you tell him while you were there was was going on?
Well in my situation I don't get along with the mother. I threathen her position at the thone I guess
. She doesn't want to be dethroned.
She acts like she likes me but trust me she doesn't.
My problem is that I'm a independent dominate person and I don't take crap from no one. I speak up and stand up for myself. I don't care if I offend her or not. If she is in the wrong or talks to me in a way that is rude or uncalled for then she deals with me. I find it rather funny. My H doesn't step in though because he wants nothing to do with it. But if she or anyone else goes off the ban wagon then he says something.
Speaking of Christmas I'm going to his mom and dads place for a couple of days. It's not too bad as long as we don't start talking about personally things and just stick to general stuff. Plus there are other things that I can do because they live around Tornoto. Lots that I want to see.
The way that I fixed this problem somewhat is that I don't see them that much. Maybe once or twice a year. I know some people may not like this but I did what my father told to do. Probably one of the smartest things I've done. And that was to move away from them and for us to live our own lives.
I guess what I'm trying to get at is that even though I don't like them as much I try to get along with them because their not going away. I'm not going to tell you to call her or anything but others on here might. If they really don't like you and you call her she will fed off of it that it won't be pleasant. If they do and something you said offended them then something can be done about it.
BTW sorry this post is not organized. Its going all over the place.