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Do I send her a birthday card?


Forest72

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Hey all,

 

I broke up with my girlfriend about 6 weeks ago. I broke up with her because she basically stopped talking to me, so maybe I was dumped and I just said the words for closure. I did send her a short email a week later asking if she couldn't help me out with some kind of closure - which she did reply to. Also asked her to block me on google chat a couple weeks ago, as I couldn't help myself from looking at her status.

 

So, anyway, no other contact. She's moved on, I'm dating someone I really like. I'd like to be friends. Her birthday is in a couple weeks. Does it make me some sort of pathetic stalker if I send her a really bland card?

 

thanks

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BellaBellaBella

You moved on with a new G/F. Why would you contact ex G/F? How would new G/F feel?

 

Don't send the card.

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Remembrances of life events such as BD's/anniversaries/holidays/etc are for those who are significant in your life. How much significance has she proactively promoted recently?

 

There's your sign :)

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