lilly36 Posted April 4, 2006 Share Posted April 4, 2006 just having a bad day today after the break up.... it's the first week of full NC after the break up three weeks ago.... I feel so burned. My BF cheated....the thing is, he was gone for three months, and he just got back, and we broke up only 3 weeks after he'd been back, so I feel like it's going thru the whole thing again (separation), although this time, I know there is no coming back. And it is so hard to focus and concentrate on school and work. I know there is light at the end of the tunnel, but sometimes this tunnel just seems so damn long! Link to post Share on other sites
lovelorcet Posted April 4, 2006 Share Posted April 4, 2006 I just wanted to say hang in there. I have also been riding the rollercoaster of emotions over the past few months. I also have bad days as well of course but the ones that really bother me are when they come for what seems to be no reason. I can be doing well for a few days and then all of a sudden some strange thought will fly through my head. That’s when the rollercoaster takes a drop that I never even saw coming. It sucks… I try to actively make a point to say to myself “hey you are doing alright” when I am feeling good. So when the ground is pulled out from under me and I feel that I am falling I try to think back to the moments when I could tell myself that I was ok. I can’t really stop the falling but I know that I just have to hang on for the ride and yes, this too will pass… Link to post Share on other sites
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