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Ex still not sure why she dated the new guy after 2 months


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She tell a mutual friend that she still not sure why she dated the new guy and said she still think of me.

Does that mean it's a good time for me to get her back or should I continue the NC(about a month now)?

Thanks

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LucreziaBorgia

Continue NC. Solidly. Until she comes to you, and I mean goes out of her way to break through that NC there is no real point in making too much out of what she is saying. She probably knew it would get back to you, and that you would be likely to contact her. It gives you just enough hope to be willing to settle for less than you ought to. Might as well cut off any 'hearsay' while you are at it. Simply refuse to discuss it.

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LB,

 

What in your eyes constitutes "coming to you"? Does someone have to stand on the doorstep and say "I want you back in my life"? I and others get messages that allude to wanting to see us again but dont actually say"I want to see you again" . Some examples are below...

 

You are on my mind

Im thinking of you

It was great to speak with you

I wish I could give you a big hug

Are you with anyone

I just called to say hello, what are you up to?

etc etc

 

Are these types of comments to be ignored?

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