At Peace Posted August 20, 2005 Share Posted August 20, 2005 I don't get what's happening. Granted I'd broken the NC in a big way, but now I feel worse than before. Some days I'm really moving along and then suddenly it's like a sledge hammer hits me and I'm choking back tears. I know he's not interested in me. Because he dumped me, but I went with him again because I was hoping...and now I know it's pointless...Only I Still Miss Him at times. Why can't I get over him him. What is wrong with me. Logically it'll never be the way it was. I know that..but my heart still yearns for him. Why can't I just wake up without feeling I miss him...I'm so tired of feeling this pain resurface again and again. Link to post Share on other sites
fatcat Posted August 21, 2005 Share Posted August 21, 2005 hello its me (the guy who's been dumped 27x and counting) well honey, Ive been thru the mill so many times i've figured out this strategy: (the woman version) 1) if he looked like Brad Pitt, George Clooney, etc --then keep on crying. if not, then dont waste any tears. 2) if he had millions $$$ then cry and cry hard. 3) if you loved him for his personality and karisma: you were wrong. he dumped you. he's a dip, not worthy of a single tear. If none of the following was applies, then move on. There are so many guys out there who want to go out with you, they just don't know it yet. And if this guy who dumped you was any good, then why'd he break up? Link to post Share on other sites
Author At Peace Posted August 21, 2005 Author Share Posted August 21, 2005 He most definitely did not have the looks of either Brad or George He had no $$$ as he is an acting student who depends upon his parents for $$. And his personality sometimes border on being mean and bi-polar. when I step back and see what he was I guess he left alot to be desired. I kept overlooking details and supplied the qualities I wanted in my mind more than they existed in reality....and he sure as hell didn't appreciate me. I'm seeing your point. Link to post Share on other sites
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