CrazyKatLady Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am adopting a kitten/cat tomorrow and I am super excited! I can not wait to hug that little bundle of joy and hear it purr and have the little fluff ball of joy snuggle up to me when I am sleeping. I feel as though my life is getting back on track after Mr. Change Your Life For Me Because Your Aren't Good Enough has been gone for 6 weeks! I feel my natural, warm, loving, sweet nature coming back and look forward to pouring it out again on the people and animals closest to me in my life. I am happy that my ex never knew just how much I had already changed my life in order to make myself available to him. I had moved to a new apartment, was single, was in the process of changing my major at college (he was my professor, and I did not want him getting into trouble at the time--should have known he was only looking for one thing, I guess--but I am not built to view the negative aspects of life so well...), had gotten a women's checkup to make sure I was fit for intimacy (I had been with 2 partners in the last decade before this guy came along), and had cut back smoking ciggs to one a week and never smoked around him, and I did all of this without his help. I had changed so much of my life--for the better, because I thought highly of him and wanted to present my best self for him--and he stood me up the first night he asked me to hang out with him. This type of demeaning treatment continued and he treated me like I was a cheap, loose woman. He even told me that after 6 months of this treatment. Was he worth it? No. Not one single bit. But, I have decided to keep on changing my life for the better, as I had been doing for the last 5 years I have been working on getting my college degree...and it has finally occurred to me that when I get to the end of my journey, and my life has been completely transformed, I guess it will be my turn to tell men like him that I am waaaayyyy out of their league. Until then, I will just keep living and loving and enjoy my new kitty friend. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Happy Lemming Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 Congrats on the kitty... Do you have a name picked out for him/her?? Details... Color, breed, etc. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author CrazyKatLady Posted February 2, 2018 Author Share Posted February 2, 2018 I go to get my kitty tomorrow! I will be sure to reply back to you then Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 i'm glad you're doing better CKL 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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