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Old 1st January 2018, 11:27 AM   #1
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2018 resolutions

It was a tough past year & I am glad it is over. Even though it was one of the hardest, yet i am thankful for it; what doesnt kill us make us stronger AMIRITE?

What are your new year's resolutions.... Anything on your bucket list you want to check off? Is this gonna be the year of absolute moving on ? Maybe meeting someone new ?
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Old 1st January 2018, 11:32 AM   #2
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For me, 2017 wasnít too shabby . Being so happy and having a good time I am almost at my highest weight Iíve ever been at. So losing the weight is a must. Then, my husband and I want to buy a new house, we put an offer on one yesterday and waiting. But after that the stress would be selling our two houses so we can consolidate into just the one we buy together. I guess these are the biggest plans.
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Old 1st January 2018, 11:36 AM   #3
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I've been cleaning out clutter, making home improvements, and getting things done that I've been putting off so I'll just keep doing that until I get everything just the way I want them to be.

But the more I scratch off the list the more other things go on.

Hopefully this year it will all get done and there won't be any more to add on.
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Old 1st January 2018, 11:52 AM   #4
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I just generally need a reset on many aspects of my life. Most, actually. So I guess my resolution is mainly to get out of my funk and make my life what I want it to be, I want to want to "do things" again.
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I just generally need a reset on many aspects of my life. Most, actually. So I guess my resolution is mainly to get out of my funk and make my life what I want it to be, I want to want to "do things" again.
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Old 1st January 2018, 12:24 PM   #6
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my resolution is i am gonna be drinking less. i am finding that drinking is affecting my sleep patterns and also i am getting rot gut.
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Old 1st January 2018, 12:25 PM   #7
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It was a tough past year & I am glad it is over. Even though it was one of the hardest, yet i am thankful for it; what doesnt kill us make us stronger AMIRITE?

What are your new year's resolutions.... Anything on your bucket list you want to check off? Is this gonna be the year of absolute moving on ? Maybe meeting someone new ?
2017 for me can only be described as a year with extreme highs and lows..mainly lows, which I've officially ranked as the third toughest year of my entire life. I am truly done with it and everything it brought.

So 2018 will be a reset and a restart. A year of recovery and personal development. I got some unfinished business with school that I have to take care of so I'm returning to full-time studies and that's where my focus will go. Also, I'm going to get back working out like I used to and expand my experiences and knowledge through travel and interaction. I strayed off my path midway last year and lost my way along with my spirit so it's about returning back to where I was always meant to be; someone who's better alone as a friend and confidant.

Best of luck to everyone on their goals.
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my resolution is i am gonna be drinking less. i am finding that drinking is affecting my sleep patterns and also i am getting rot gut.
What is rot gut?
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my resolution is to lose 5 lbs and spend less time on LS
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my resolution is to lose 5 lbs and spend less time on LS
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Perfect! Haha, thanks....my 2018 theme song .v
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What is rot gut?
too much hard bad liquor on empty stomach.
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Old 3rd January 2018, 2:01 AM   #13
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My 2018 is also a reset and restart. 2017 I lost my job because the office closed and I also spent 2017 healing from a relationship ending. I start my new position Monday and I also now feel healed and ready to start dating in 2018. I'm really hoping for a positive 2018 for myself and all of you.
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Old 3rd January 2018, 2:14 AM   #14
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My New Years resolution is a faster vintage car !
Either a 1973 trans am or a 1968 fastback mustang

Weíll see thereís a 1970 challenger Iíve been looking at
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Mine are:
1. to pay all my debts.
2. To travel a lot.
3. to put myself first.
4. to be happy.
5. To choose right.
6. to go back to the gym.
7. to completely get over my past.
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