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Haven't dated in a decade, 28 and a virgin, consdering suicide


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Old 18th August 2017, 1:30 AM   #76
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I can't even masturbate any more because I get so down on myself looking at beautiful women I'll never have. I watch TV and movies and when romance comes up I feel like a failure. I go out for fresh air and see attractive couples a decade younger than me and want to die.

Plus I have a damaged nerve, a stomach bacteria, and a sleep disorder that makes me unable to get more than 5 or 6 hours per night. Nothing left to live for. Just everything to die for. Goodbye.
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Old 18th August 2017, 1:35 AM   #77
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EDIT: **** it, I'm going to bed and forgetting about this site. None of this can be edited or removed so it's just bad for me.

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Old 23rd August 2017, 8:13 PM   #78
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Old 26th August 2017, 10:11 AM   #79
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I'm 26 and in a similar situation. Been alone for many, many years.

I too often think that I will never find someone to be with me. I often have thoughts that I'm just unlucky to be born and raised this way.

But then I remember all the knowledge I have about this world. About the Universe, about the planet, about the endless species walking on it.

I take my inspiration from it. I remember how unique of an event it is to be alive as a human.

And then I just refuse to give up until I cannot resist anymore. I will walk until my legs stop carrying me. After all, one frog that kept living is the one that didn't stop moving.

That's what helps me, at least for now. Maybe I'm just lying to myself. But I won't stop till I still have hope. We only have one chance to live.
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Old 18th September 2017, 11:58 PM   #80
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I'm taking my final jump in a few minutes. Thank you to all who tried to help me.
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Old 19th September 2017, 12:56 AM   #81
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National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
Call 1-800-273-8255
Available 24 hours everyday
https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/


Don't give up. You just have to not give up.

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Old 19th September 2017, 12:58 AM   #82
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I'm taking my final jump in a few minutes. Thank you to all who tried to help me.
Please let me know if you are still here as soon as possible. I am very worried.
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Old 29th September 2017, 1:17 PM   #83
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Jesus Christ i hope OP isn't actually serious.
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