NopeNah Posted November 19, 2014 Share Posted November 19, 2014 Was in contact with my ex for the past week, due to her son leaving for university. He was like my own child for the past 10+ year's, even if her and I were not together. So, bit of a tuff time for me as well. Pretty much the last connect with her. I have known that we would not reconcile, yet again. I have known the relationship has been toxic for years. I also know that I'm setting here,again, mourning our past. I'll be fine. Do my thing,as I always do, just hurting now. Link to post Share on other sites
Author NopeNah Posted November 19, 2014 Author Share Posted November 19, 2014 Oops.. Wrong section. Meant for coping. No umpteen chance to here! Link to post Share on other sites
AlexfromBoston Posted November 20, 2014 Share Posted November 20, 2014 Hey buddy, I realize you posted in the wrong forum but you never know, you might be able to mend things with her. As I have related in the past, I literally have a friend who went to prison for 5 years and the second he got out, his ex came running back to him. You were with her for 10+ years, that is a lot of time for things to just abruptly end. What was toxic about the relationship? Are you trying to mend things? Link to post Share on other sites
Author NopeNah Posted November 20, 2014 Author Share Posted November 20, 2014 Not trying to get her back. Toxins were: resentment from both sides from past events, cruel arguments, belittling in public (from her) which is clearly a lack of respect, constantly walking on eggshells around her,ect.... I could go on for days. I ended it,this time. No way for either of us to carry on together. I wish her well and do/will miss her for a bit, but no thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
AlexfromBoston Posted November 20, 2014 Share Posted November 20, 2014 Not trying to get her back. Toxins were: resentment from both sides from past events, cruel arguments, belittling in public (from her) which is clearly a lack of respect, constantly walking on eggshells around her,ect.... I could go on for days. I ended it,this time. No way for either of us to carry on together. I wish her well and do/will miss her for a bit, but no thanks. Yikes, well in that case its probably best to bow out before things get even worse. I definitely think you made the right decision. Oh well, such is life. No bloodshed, no jail sentences...it could be worse. Link to post Share on other sites
Author NopeNah Posted November 21, 2014 Author Share Posted November 21, 2014 She definitely needs a warning stamp on her forehead! Honestly I feel like a little wussy for staying so long. Like abused women, apparently some guy's get in the same mindset. Never thought I was that guy. All my family and friends did see it clearly. Strange what the human mind does. Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts