Mary Oak Posted April 16, 2014 Share Posted April 16, 2014 I know everything you think is not true, but I am having a hard time stopping some thoughts of the possibilities of things that may have happened. My ex said she did not go out with my ex-bf for a year after we broke up. For clarificiation, my ex-bf stopped talking to me about three weeks after my break-up (which was a huge red flag even at the time). But, they both told me that nothing happend for a year. And for the most part, I believe them. Just because I knew who my ex was, but now doubt is sitting in. I know it shouldn't really matter at this point, but it is setting me back in my healing. I continue thinking of the times they were alone together, though it was not many. Only a handful. But, we used to vacation with her and her gf at the time. I mean, we hung out A LOT! And last night I couldn't stop remembering everytime my ex would go to the store or something, she would always want to go with her. I never thought anything of this, because one my ex and I were doing fine, and two my ex and I often talked about the strangeness of this girl and also her unfortunate bad looks I know, not nice, but some things you can just talk to your gf with. So, in essence, I can't get out of my mind, that they may have cheated, even if it was emotional... and I KNOW IT DOESN'T MATTER AT THIS POINT, BUT I CAN'T STOP THINKING ABOUT EACH TIME THEY WERE ALONE. It bothered me so much that I almost broke NC last night to ask her. But, I didn't. I have asked her before, why do I think I would get a different answer now? One thing in our relationship, when we had one, was trust. Even if it hurt the other person, we would tell the truth. so.... I don't know what to think... or more accurately, how to stop thinking about it at all... Help?!?!? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mary Oak Posted April 16, 2014 Author Share Posted April 16, 2014 I should clarify... ex-bf is ex best friend.... not boyfriend Link to post Share on other sites
tlegend Posted April 16, 2014 Share Posted April 16, 2014 Is this a thread about breaking it off with your ex....best friend?? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mary Oak Posted April 16, 2014 Author Share Posted April 16, 2014 No, this is about trying to get over ex that has moved on with my ex=best friend. Link to post Share on other sites
tlegend Posted April 16, 2014 Share Posted April 16, 2014 And last night I couldn't stop remembering everytime my ex would go to the store or something, she would always want to go with her. Maybe I'm misreading, and I don't mean to tear open any wounds you aren't comfortable speaking about...but am I interpreting this right? Your ex (a woman) left you (I presume another woman?)and a year later has moved on with your ex-best friend (another woman)? Link to post Share on other sites
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