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Should I block the number?


HorseLuck

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Lately I've been getting calls and text in the early hours of the morning from the ex. They're pointless. He's either drunk or trying to mess with me. I'm a bit fearful I'm going to receive one today and it's going to say something hurtful. Should I block the number or not?

 

I've been ignoring them. If I block the number he will know it's gotten to me; that he was able to affect me in some way. I don't want him to know that. Plus, I've been m.i.a. (though NC was made clear) for awhile. Blocking will make it known that I'm actually receiving these attempts.

 

If I don't block the number, well.. I'll probably get upset if something harsh or nasty is said and I'll be tempted to reply (it's the itch i don't want). There's a part of me that wants to give him a chance in a sense, to stop on his own. I'm thinking maybe that was the last time and he's taken into account the new year, and that it's the wrong thing to do.

 

Which should I do? Maybe I can learn to not let it agitate me, but it's very inconsiderate and disrespectful.

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