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How bright a person do you think you are?

 

If you think you're quite bright, you would be able to predict what people will say when you post generic goals/stuff, yes?

 

What advice, that would help you are you seeking?

 

It just seems you're liking the attention you're getting from people here and I, for one feel like you're wasting their time and preying on their helpful/good nature.

 

Do what's best for you then update us, then advice may be heeded,yes?

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advice please

 

It's like the past 24 hours never happened... it's all been some crazy Orwellian dream I had, and this is the first time I've seen this thread... curious deja vu....

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Look Fred I know what you plan on saying to her sounds like the most perfect thing and there's no way it couldn't work. You'll both cry and apologize and live happily ever after. Except nothing you say can work now. I tried something like that and I was rejected and crushed. Just accept that it's over with. Take her off a pedestal and go for a long walk and think about all the things that you didn't like about her. Remind yourself of those things when you feel like contacting her. It's not easy man but you'll be ok.

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It's like the past 24 hours never happened... it's all been some crazy Orwellian dream I had, and this is the first time I've seen this thread... curious deja vu....

 

 

He has been doin this for months. I think noone ever has been given more advice than him on this forum. It's a shame he doesn't give a damn about it.

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He's an emotional vampire.

We just have to do the Rhett Butler thing... you know....

 

"Frankly my dear, I don't GIVE a damn....!"

 

And stop feeding the idiocy.

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theres no way id go over there looking like a fat ****, after drinking heavily, bloated face and all.

 

 

6 months of graft.

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im going to.

 

but she wont be over it.

 

guaranteed.

 

our love was strong, and just deteriorated whilst at university, and she got GIGS.

 

i will send her a letter, with ring, in 6 months, with a photo. and see if she wants to ignite it, along with the changes i have made about myself.

 

 

i need to get busy with my life.

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im going to.

 

but she wont be over it.

 

guaranteed.

 

our love was strong, and just deteriorated whilst at university, and she got GIGS.

 

i will send her a letter, with ring, in 6 months, with a photo. and see if she wants to ignite it, along with the changes i have made about myself.

 

 

i need to get busy with my life.

 

do it for yourself, not for her. but I'll kiss my own ass if you can stick to nc for more than a week.

 

please prove that I'm wrong and you can really stop this BS and you can man up.

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do it for yourself, not for her. but I'll kiss my own ass if you can stick to nc for more than a week.

 

A WEEK!?!

 

Phukkme, that long??

I was thinking an hour - !

 

Btw, I have no idea why I keep posting in your threads, really.

 

Yeah me too. I think it's just that macabre fascination people have with watching disasters in slo-mo....

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Btw, I have no idea why I keep posting in your threads, really.

 

I just hope that girl will find a decent man and it will help you accept the fact that she has long moved on.

 

Cold as Ice.

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Look, I can sort of see your place, you sound like a very desperate man. We've ALL been there, if thats any sort of condolence, but you need to see yourself from her view. Women like to chase and to fight for things. You think she wants this drippy, needy and quite frankly pathetic little sap begging at her feet? No, she wants a man! So go NC, but don't do it for the hope of being with her again because that will get you nowhere!

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Cold as Ice.

 

What do you expect? We were nice, we did our best to help you, but have you ignored and keep ignoring all of us here. You live in a dreamworld, you are too coward to face the facts.

 

I'm not cold as ice, I just want to you be angry at yourself and say it's enough, I'm a man, I can handle this like a man and leave that poor girl alone.

 

Because now you are a pathetic, sobbing wreck. You should be ashamed of yourself.

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I am a man.

 

I was a man when I met her.

 

This has destroyed me.

 

She was needy controlling desperate in the relationship.

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but lets be honest here.....who gives a **** about being needy desperate?

 

 

honestly, who does?

 

i dont need to be in a relationship to be happy.

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so what do you give a schytt about?

 

And if you don't need a relationship to be happy - how come you're not happy out of this one?

 

Gimme a break!

 

Why am I even trying!?

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schytt childhood. no degree (went but no interest in the subjects)

 

family home owned by bank.

 

schytt situation all round.

 

 

music to keep me going.

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quite.foolish

Every time you want to e-mail her.. email yourself, this..

 

but lets be honest here.....who gives a **** about being needy desperate?

 

 

honestly, who does?

 

i dont need to be in a relationship to be happy.

 

Then when you need to email her again.. Email yourself, this..

 

but lets be honest here.....who gives a **** about being needy desperate?

 

 

honestly, who does?

 

i dont need to be in a relationship to be happy.

 

then this..

 

but lets be honest here.....who gives a **** about being needy desperate?

 

 

honestly, who does?

 

i dont need to be in a relationship to be happy.

 

then this..

 

but lets be honest here.....who gives a **** about being needy desperate?

 

 

honestly, who does?

 

i dont need to be in a relationship to be happy.

 

Do it a thousand times a day if you need to. Every time you need to email her.. Email yourself, this..

 

but lets be honest here.....who gives a **** about being needy desperate?

 

 

honestly, who does?

 

i dont need to be in a relationship to be happy.

 

As many times you need to, until you fkin believe it, Fred.

 

You are a man. You just forgot got confused, everyone does when they lose something so important. It's cool, that was the past, this is now.. Just start remembering..

 

but lets be honest here.....who gives a **** about being needy desperate?

 

 

honestly, who does?

 

i dont need to be in a relationship to be happy.

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So?

 

Most homes are owned by a bank or mortgage society, and most people are up to their necks in debt...

 

You need to move on from your schytty childhood.

Loads of us had one of those, but it's not something anyone should use as an excuse or prop for being the miserable schytty loser they are now....

 

What kind of music?

Vivaldi is good, Wagner, not so much.....:rolleyes:

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