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So I was pretty abruptly dumped about 2 months ago. I knew the routine because my wife left me 6 years ago. I knew I could waste a year or two moping and angry. Being dumped releases a lot of energy.

 

Instead of wasting that energy on negative emotions. I used to get in shape and to successfully confront a phobia I had all my life. I feel I have cured myself of the dumping by using the pain for good.

 

It feels like I won the breakup in a way. Yeah I know it's juvenile but it helps a lot.

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I like to do something big after a breakup..Working out is always a good thing. Also focusing on 'fixing'/bettering yourself is great! Use your time wisely ladies and gents! :cool:

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I like being dumped because I don't have to make that decision and live with regrets. When I dump someone I tend to second guess myself or think that it's my own fault because I am too idealistic.

 

When I am dumped, it's like I couldn't have done anything anyway. No second guessing. I also generally dislike being in a relationship and a large part of me feels relief that I get to be single again.

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I like being dumped because I don't have to make that decision and live with regrets. When I dump someone I tend to second guess myself or think that it's my own fault because I am too idealistic.

 

When I am dumped, it's like I couldn't have done anything anyway. No second guessing. I also generally dislike being in a relationship and a large part of me feels relief that I get to be single again.

:lmao: so true! I'm also a bit of a procrastinator,so it could be a while before I end an obviously horrible relationship.
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I like being dumped because I don't have to make that decision and live with regrets. When I dump someone I tend to second guess myself or think that it's my own fault because I am too idealistic.

 

When I am dumped, it's like I couldn't have done anything anyway. No second guessing. I also generally dislike being in a relationship and a large part of me feels relief that I get to be single again.

 

lol it's true, we finally find some extra motivation to move on with our lives

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So I was pretty abruptly dumped about 2 months ago. I knew the routine because my wife left me 6 years ago. I knew I could waste a year or two moping and angry. Being dumped releases a lot of energy.

 

Instead of wasting that energy on negative emotions. I used to get in shape and to successfully confront a phobia I had all my life. I feel I have cured myself of the dumping by using the pain for good.

 

It feels like I won the breakup in a way. Yeah I know it's juvenile but it helps a lot.

 

Other positives of being dumped / being single.

 

1) do what ever you want, whenever you want

2) Play video games for 8 hours at a time

3) Flirt with who ever you want to

4) Daydream about who your next partner is, and what she is currently doing

5) Sports betting

6) Strip clubs

7) Try that drug you've always been curious about

8) Have McDonalds for breakfast and Taco Bell for dinner

9) Watch as much porn as you want.

10) Blast hard rock music throughout the house, knowing that no one is going to complain

11) Hang out on break up forums.

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Other positives of being dumped / being single.

 

1) do what ever you want, whenever you want

2) Play video games for 8 hours at a time

3) Flirt with who ever you want to

4) Daydream about who your next partner is, and what she is currently doing

5) Sports betting

6) Strip clubs

7) Try that drug you've always been curious about

8) Have McDonalds for breakfast and Taco Bell for dinner

9) Watch as much porn as you want.

10) Blast hard rock music throughout the house, knowing that no one is going to complain

11) Hang out on break up forums.

 

Lol keep going, I think this list could speak for millions of people on this planet, it's funny but this is what most dumpees do, af the end we all win

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Other positives of being dumped / being single.

 

1) do what ever you want, whenever you want

2) Play video games for 8 hours at a time

3) Flirt with who ever you want to

4) Daydream about who your next partner is, and what she is currently doing

5) Sports betting

6) Strip clubs

7) Try that drug you've always been curious about

8) Have McDonalds for breakfast and Taco Bell for dinner

9) Watch as much porn as you want.

10) Blast hard rock music throughout the house, knowing that no one is going to complain

11) Hang out on break up forums.

 

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