Mabu8128 Posted February 17, 2018 Share Posted February 17, 2018 (edited) She ended things 5 days ago, She said I need to love myself before I love someone else (sounds bs though to me). I was hanging out with a mutual friend the other day and he invited her along. We agreed that we can still talk and be friends so thats what I did. I was being my usual funny charismatic self but she was very quite like she did not care :/ ...It seems like she never cared at all. ...Did I handle it well on my end acting casual and normal? Or should have I ignored her and gone NC and went home? Edited February 17, 2018 by Mabu8128 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted February 17, 2018 Share Posted February 17, 2018 You handled it well, very maturely. I'd have a chat with your buddy, though. That was pretty insensitive of him to invite your EX. She is right, though. If she doesn't like her self, she can't be in a relationship because she has nothing genuine to offer the other person. She may be whole & just telling you that but it is a truism. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
springy Posted February 17, 2018 Share Posted February 17, 2018 Sounds like torture to me, I would have passed on that. Thanks "friend." Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted February 17, 2018 Share Posted February 17, 2018 Your friend should have known better. Tell him don't do that again. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mabu8128 Posted February 17, 2018 Author Share Posted February 17, 2018 Your friend should have known better. Tell him don't do that again. I know that, I just want to know if I handled it well for what I had? Link to post Share on other sites
CantTakeMySmile Posted February 17, 2018 Share Posted February 17, 2018 I know that, I just want to know if I handled it well for what I had? Sure, you said you agreed to be friends, so why wouldn't you act normal? Link to post Share on other sites
NopeNah Posted February 18, 2018 Share Posted February 18, 2018 Don't hangout with an ex, as friends, ever. Link to post Share on other sites
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