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Old 1st November 2017, 8:06 PM   #31
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Hey man so sorry to hear about the breakup. I'm going through one right now myself. I think you are just having psycho-somatic emotional responses. Totally normal. Sounds like anxiety and possibly a little panic attacks. Just for piece of mind though I would go to your family doctor and get checked out just to make sure you are ok(physically and psychologically). You may need to see a good therapist at the very least. Don't go through this alone. Talk it out with people. We are here for you on this board. I don't think there is anything medically wrong with you though. This sounds all normal after a heartbreaking breakup. You will heal with time.
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Old 1st November 2017, 9:16 PM   #32
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Thanks edem and JimmyNYC. The moments I get those sensations were pretty scary at first sine Iíve never experienced that before. Now I know what they are, so Iím going to vent through my writing and those close to me. I hope you guys are doing well yourselves. It can get hard, but what part of life isnít. We just gotta keep pushing day by day.
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Old 9th November 2017, 7:10 PM   #33
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So after a month of not seeing each other, and my ex texting me first while I was nc, I asked her out this Saturday to talk over some coffee. I was wondering if you guys could give me any advice on seeing her for the first time. I already feel confident and will act natural and me myself. I wonít be nervous. We both love each other very much, but she broke up with me because of the pain of neglect I put her through while away for college. Since we started talking, she sent me pictures of how I would neglect her and told me that things like that make her hesitant. Iíve been trying to talk to her and spark conversation before this Saturday, but she constantly sees my message and then doesnít respond for 8 hours or so. I know sheís not busy because sheís on social media throughout that time, and I know when she sees the message because itís through fb messenger. Can you guys give me some input as to why sheís acting this way? The only thing Iíve been able to conclude is that sheís either playing hard to get or is just being cold and distant to teach me a lesson.
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Old 9th November 2017, 8:09 PM   #34
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Maybe you're coming off as needy? If you made plans to meet up and talk simply leave it at that.. Don't text and try to start a conversation.

Also depends what you've said. Come on man, let go of this she's on social media but ignoring me ****.. Get off it, it sounds to me you're only driving yourself crazy..
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Old 9th November 2017, 9:20 PM   #35
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Thatís also very true Buriall. Being patient just isnít my fortť ya know.
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Old 9th November 2017, 9:27 PM   #36
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Than you haven't experienced the importance of being patient.. Nature doesn't rush everything but still everything is accomplished exactly at the right time.

Point is.. If you keep sending texts you can annoy her and you don't want to annoy woman if you want to be with one. If she's not responding to you right away or not at all don't take it to the heart.. LET IT BE
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