Been Posted September 5, 2017 Share Posted September 5, 2017 I don't talk to my ex. Don't check out any of her social media. NOTHING. I live in a very small town so I'm bound to run into which I have no problem with but she seems to. I pull up to shop at a local store at pretty much the same time she does. I'm not bothered by that as she shopping just like I am. I walk in the store and she's looking back at me but I just continue on- its not a bog deal. Once inside the store i start shopping and out of the corner of my eye I notice someone moving at warp speed. Its my ex and she moving like her hair is on fire. To the point other people shopping are giving her looks. Now she cheated on me and since then I've never bothered her in any way. My question is will she always act like that in a public around me? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted September 5, 2017 Share Posted September 5, 2017 You know her. We don't. It seems like you are behaving rationally. Continue to do so. Link to post Share on other sites
DarrenB Posted September 6, 2017 Share Posted September 6, 2017 You're probably reading into it more than you should, essentially meaning that perhaps over-exaggerating the situation. There's an abundance of reasons why she's acting 'strangely' or 'weird', but some of those reasons don't involve you. Continue you how you are, and don't overthink this particular situation at all Link to post Share on other sites
Author Been Posted September 6, 2017 Author Share Posted September 6, 2017 I wish I was reading into it but I'm not. Just wish she would act a little more mature. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted September 6, 2017 Share Posted September 6, 2017 She's acting weird around you because she feels weird around you. It's not uncommon to feel weird around an ex, so try not to overthink it. Link to post Share on other sites
Methodical Posted September 6, 2017 Share Posted September 6, 2017 You live in a very small town, so not only are you bound to run into each other from time to time, I imagine most everyone knows what happened. Pure speculation here. Bumping into you is a trigger...an in-her-face reminder of what she did and possibly some of the blowback she received as a result of her actions. Sound like she is trying to run from shame and guilt. Her problem, not yours. You are handling yourself well. Continue taking the high road. Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted September 6, 2017 Share Posted September 6, 2017 Who cares. She's nothing to you now. Let that be her problem to deal with. She's not worth the time it takes to think about it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Been Posted September 6, 2017 Author Share Posted September 6, 2017 You know I don't think too many people know what happemed-i really kept to myself and she knows alot more people then me. When we dated I didn't realize it until looking back but we never did anything in town togeather- she would always make excuses as to why she didn't want to-which makes sense now because she was cheating. I really don't like her but she has as much right to go to a public place as I. My concern is I'm pretty sure she painted me the bad guy around town and I just don't want anyone to judge me based off of that. And by her acting like I'm some kind of monster I guess I think it could reinforce people thinking I'm this horrible person. Thanks all for answering. Link to post Share on other sites
Sweetfish Posted September 6, 2017 Share Posted September 6, 2017 You know I don't think too many people know what happemed-i really kept to myself and she knows alot more people then me. When we dated I didn't realize it until looking back but we never did anything in town togeather- she would always make excuses as to why she didn't want to-which makes sense now because she was cheating. I really don't like her but she has as much right to go to a public place as I. My concern is I'm pretty sure she painted me the bad guy around town and I just don't want anyone to judge me based off of that. And by her acting like I'm some kind of monster I guess I think it could reinforce people thinking I'm this horrible person. Thanks all for answering. Please from now on... Do not care what anyone thinks about you.. Link to post Share on other sites
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