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Old 14th May 2017, 11:41 PM   #46
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11/10. Regardless, can't believe how cold my ex is being. Put me on NC/doorslamed me. And ok, maybe he is seeing another girl, whatevs, but not even a "hi". No "I forgive you" Not even a "stop contacting me". Just reading all my messages with glee and loving he has no intention to respond. My apologies mean nothing to him. If he knew it was true, would he even care? I don't know why he took me off block just to ignore me but it seems like a cruel game

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Old 14th May 2017, 11:51 PM   #47
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11/10. Regardless, can't believe how cold my ex is being. Put me on NC/doorslamed me. And ok, maybe he is seeing another girl, whatevs, but not even a "hi". No "I forgive you" Not even a "stop contacting me". Just reading all my messages with glee and loving he has no intention to respond. My apologies mean nothing to him. If he knew it was true, would he even care? I don't know why he took me off block just to ignore me but it seems like a cruel game
No idea why you even give him the satisfaction.....DON'T DO IT
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Old 15th May 2017, 12:01 AM   #48
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No idea why you even give him the satisfaction.....DON'T DO IT
I know you're right, CS. Ty. So just stop messaging. Thats it.
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Old 15th May 2017, 12:05 AM   #49
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I know you're right, CS. Ty. So just stop messaging. Thats it.
Exactly, just let it go....you have to know and believe that there is something much better awaiting you. You deserve to be treated great
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Old 15th May 2017, 12:39 AM   #50
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Lasted like 7 months? Breakup was about a 7/10. She seemed to lack any empathy, and I called her a whore on Twitter.
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Old 15th May 2017, 1:21 AM   #51
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I will chime in although not technically a break up, I suppose.
10/10. 6 years together, engaged for 2. I lost her in a car accident while I was deployed in hell. Year one was a blur. Year two a little focus returned. Year three I dated a little. It's year four and I am with the woman that I will more than likely marry. I guess break ups come in many forms...I would advise against one like mine if at all possible.
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Old 15th May 2017, 1:23 AM   #52
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I will chime in although not technically a break up, I suppose.
10/10. 6 years together, engaged for 2. I lost her in a car accident while I was deployed in hell. Year one was a blur. Year two a little focus returned. Year three I dated a little. It's year four and I am with the woman that I will more than likely marry. I guess break ups come in many forms...I would advise against one like mine if at all possible.
I'm so sorry...
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Old 15th May 2017, 4:50 AM   #53
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I will chime in although not technically a break up, I suppose.
10/10. 6 years together, engaged for 2. I lost her in a car accident while I was deployed in hell. Year one was a blur. Year two a little focus returned. Year three I dated a little. It's year four and I am with the woman that I will more than likely marry. I guess break ups come in many forms...I would advise against one like mine if at all possible.
I'm so sorry as well. This is so sad to read.
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Old 15th May 2017, 8:10 AM   #54
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1 being not that bad if bad at all and 10 being the worst break up imaginable. Last relationship lasted about a good 9 months (5 months officially). Ended pretty badly. Would say maybe 6.5/10 bad. Nothing too horrible but still far from a happy ending...

Mine lasted for 5 years, 3 months, 4 days.
The break-up was one of the worst I have ever experienced.... still reeling from the pain of her cruelty.

Break-up Rating: 11/10
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Old 15th May 2017, 2:18 PM   #55
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Mine lasted for 5 years, 3 months, 4 days.
The break-up was one of the worst I have ever experienced.... still reeling from the pain of her cruelty.

Break-up Rating: 11/10


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Old 15th May 2017, 4:41 PM   #56
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2.5 years together.
We loved each other very deeply, or at least I did, with my words and actions.

We lived together for over a year in a tiny flat. Travelled to many countries. I was her first for many things. She said more than once that she wanted to marry me. I was there when she was depressed and crying daily for weeks. We had some time of LDR. Definitely, the most important love relationship I had in my entire life.

She broke it off, but how she dealt with the previous 2 months in the distance... She neglected me, betrayed me and abandoned me. I was always there for her and when I really needed her she just didn't even try or wait to meet face to face.

Break up rating 9/10.

"In the end, itīs how you overcome its obstacles that will define your love. It may not be practical, but love is ultimately the best thing that will ever happen to you".
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Old 17th May 2017, 8:03 AM   #57
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Old 17th May 2017, 8:25 AM   #58
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Over a 2 year relationship, 6 month post breakup. about an 8/10 on the breakup. I let her leave with dignity and never begged though I let it be known I didnt agree with it.

But its been a 10 on the aftermath. Worse breakup thus far, and worse part is to this day I still don't get why she left. I treated her like gold. And I've had trouble finding love again.
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Old 1st August 2017, 6:57 PM   #60
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I will chime in although not technically a break up, I suppose.
10/10. 6 years together, engaged for 2. I lost her in a car accident while I was deployed in hell. Year one was a blur. Year two a little focus returned. Year three I dated a little. It's year four and I am with the woman that I will more than likely marry. I guess break ups come in many forms...I would advise against one like mine if at all possible.
How devastating.

Thankfully, you've recovered and have found happiness.
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