Laurenjade Posted December 5, 2016 Share Posted December 5, 2016 Whenever my brother or I leave our Facebook logged in, it gives the other automatic permission to go and update their status. Yesterday i updated my brothers status saying 'can anyone tell me where Lady Gaga gets her hair done. Really considering having mine done similar'. Within a min my ex had liked the status and commented 'best one yet (me)' then the chat function popped up .... (Him) Can we be friends now? Have you gotten over your not being able to handle us/can't deal with us being friends? (Me) I said it wasn't a good idea if we both still cared. (H) The world is full of bad ideas Then when I didn't reply I got ... I've had 75 emails from Meg (a woman we met while away together) this week She means well. She tried relationship advice too! I'm sure you ignored that Yes. you know me too well ??? xxx I'm not sure I did the right thing even in replying. I don't know why he has to mention that I know him too well. He's still blocked on my phone, social media etc. So that should be it, but do I reset my NC? We split because of the distance. That's not going to change for years. I'm stuck, he wants to be friendly, I can't! Link to post Share on other sites
umirano Posted December 5, 2016 Share Posted December 5, 2016 I'm confused about using someone else's SM account to talk to the ex... Maybe don't use your brother's account when you don't want your ex to talk to you? Only use the ones where you can definitely block him? I'm assuming you want to maintain NC as per your last line. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted December 5, 2016 Share Posted December 5, 2016 Whenever my brother or I leave our Facebook logged in, it gives the other automatic permission to go and update their status. That does not make sense. Do you both share one account, or something? If so then the solution is pretty obvious. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Laurenjade Posted December 5, 2016 Author Share Posted December 5, 2016 That does not make sense. Do you both share one account, or something? If so then the solution is pretty obvious. No, I was on his iPad. He left his Facebook logged in, so we mess about on each other's leaving daft status'. I didn't realise my brother was still friends with my ex on there. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted December 5, 2016 Share Posted December 5, 2016 No, I was on his iPad. He left his Facebook logged in, so we mess about on each other's leaving daft status'. I didn't realise my brother was still friends with my ex on there. Then the solution is equally clear. Either don't mess around with his FB, or accept that if you carry on then you may see communication between him and your ex. Link to post Share on other sites
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